"Never look down to test
the ground before taking your next step; only he who keeps his eye fixed on the
far horizon will find the right road."
– Dag Hammarskjöld
Form Tony: I like the quote but Dag must not of been trail runner. If I didn't look down I would trip more then I already do.
Make sure that your goal is concrete ,measurable, attainable and
the achievement or outcome is crystal clear. To illustrate, one of my goals is
to run 50 miles within a week or seven days. I can either run every day; six
days a week; five days a week or whatever. All I have to do, is calculate miles
per run and multiply that by the number of days that I run. Notice, that my
goal is measurable and easily determined. I will be either successful or not
successful. I have no one to blame but
me if I don’t achieve my goal. However,
when I achieve my goal, I feel great.
Make sure that your goal is realistic. Past performance can
be a good guide to determine expectation
of success. Since I have a history, and keep track of my running distances, I
know by now , if my goal is realistic. When I started to keep track of my running distances per
day, I developed a baseline of
performance. Keep your expectations and
goals realistic.
I have selected running 50 miles per week as a goal for the
following reasons. 1. This distance
allows me to run any race distance up to
50 K without having to make major training adjustments. 2. I use that distance as a
barometer for my health. Having a goal not only means thinking about the
future, it also takes into account planning, researching, assessing, evaluating,
practicing/and/or conditioning. Having to look forward to something, that’s
important, is a mental health principle that contributes to my well-being.
Mental toughness , in sports, takes into account achievement
goals and the ability to persist or continue in spite of internal or external
obstacles. An internal obstacle might be related to physical pain. So, if one
is in pain . it is important to evaluate this condition. It might be smart to
discontinue the activity or to re frame one’s thinking. One can acknowledge the
pain but re frame and call it “discomfort.” Instead of thinking about the
mountain or the hill ahead as “ too
tough or I can’t” re frame and call that hill or mountain “my friend.” Tony, while running, refers to the hills as
his friend. As a young boy, Tony’s father told him to like what he was doing
regardless of what it was. Tony’s still following his father’s advice.
“I can’t” has to be replaced with thoughts like “pick up
your feet,” “put 1 foot in front of the other,” “ I am going to run to the next
tree “ and so forth. In other words, replace negative thoughts with positive
thinking. Negative thinking tends to snowball and must therefore be stopped and confronted immediately. Do not
sabotage or allow the negative or irrational thinking to interfere with
performance because it can.
Mental- physical toughness also takes into account the
ability to stay in the present ,while paying attention to your body. Be mindful
of your breathing and acknowledge the tightness, stiffness or discomfort going on
within your body. Frequently, monitor your breathing, especially belly
breathing. In scanning your body, begin with your head, go to your throat, your
chest, shoulders , etc. and continue to scan all the way down to your toes.
Stay in the present to allow yourself the ability to reduce your discomfort. This is called mindfulness.
It’s also helpful be in a supportive environment for nurturing
during difficult times. Human connections release neurotransmitters like
oxytocin that can be helpful during
times of stress and feeling discouraged and/or aloneness. Don Freeman talked
about the running community and how much assistance he received during his Angels Crest 100 mile run. Don was extremely thankful and
acknowledged that his success was dependent on his fellow man.
If your goal or goals provide meaning in your life, you
likely know why you’re doing what you’re doing. The importance of your goal
success is related to its meaning and
passion in your life. With meaning and
passion, you have a clear focus and your priorities lined up correctly. The higher the correlation between success,
meaning and passion , the greater the chance of completion and well-being.
Stay tuned for additional information and insights regarding
mental toughness. Remember, life, and
life experiences are the journey. There are many roads to take. Just make sure to navigate safely and avoid
dead ends when you can. While on your
journey, keep moving, smiling, laughing, and deep breathing.
Kirk Edgerton was my guest on last Thursday’s show. Learn
how overweight, fast food alcoholic drinking Kirk, found meaning in his life
through physical exercise. This young man was going nowhere fast until about
age 25, when he made his first breakthrough. His second crisis resolved at
about age 35. Learn about his story.
Kirk runs the Fleet Feet, Fair Oaks, California store. He
has competed in triathlons ,xterra
biking races, and running races ranging from 5K to 100 miles. This is
his story. http://youtu.be/3oBGAbe1enM