Darwin wrote about survival of the fittest .Compared to animals, which are limited by their brain physiology , we humans with cerebral cortex development , become faced with a sense of self, reason and the existential fact of mortality. And, we cannot change the fact that our mind and our body changes from growth to decay , atrophy and death. We are fearful, powerless of that reality in spite of our illusions , delusions and double talk from the promotional longevity gurus.
As humans we are confronted with the major mental and physical disharmony that exists with our existence based on the inevitability of death. In coping , we require and create a frame of reference based on our thinking , feeling and behavioral tendencies for this inevitability.
In essence, for our survival , we require and create strategies .These thinking and feeling cognitive strategies become our devotions, aims, ideas and/ or “god” that allows us to transcend our dilemma. If "successful" with our orientation , this allows us to find harmony , an anxiety reduction in our existence by giving us a sense of meaning in our lives.
Survival and meaning In a capitalistic industrial,technological economy, for some, become a devotion for success, prestige, power, possession , conquest , exploitation and domination . In fact, the intensity of a devotion becomes a drive or desire that can be superior and supersede all else, even self-love , morality and even self preservation.
Such devotion suggests that these individuals choose a system that’s based on their irrationality , narcissism , the worship of power and destruction as opposed to a system with tendencies for humanistic productivity, love and rationality .
Let’s begin with a Biblical quote “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. “ However, we find that the love of oneself is a sin in Calvin’s theology. He believed that man is essentially evil , powerless and cannot achieve anything that’s good on the basis of his own strength. And ,the fondness of oneself ,to like anything about oneself is one of the greatest sins. In fact ,Calvin spoke of self love as a “pest.” If one can not love oneself , how can one love thy neighbor ?
From a philosophical viewpoint, Spinoza believed that It Is in the interest of man to preserve his existence by realizing his inherent potential. Self interest is not conceived in terms of the subjective feeling of one's interest, but it is in terms of what the nature of man is objectively . Man’s only real interest is to fulfill the development of his potential as a human being. The ability to love is part of the equation.
Nietzsche believed that a strong individual is one who has true kindness, nobility, greatness of the soul which does not give in ,in order to take, and to excel is by being kind. To love another person is a virtue if it springs from inner strength, but it is a vice if it’s an inability to love oneself.
A capitalistic belief and societal reinforcement is that greed is good, be selfish, keep up your advantage, act according to what is best for you and by doing so you will be obtaining the greatest advantage .And , more than likely, this selfishness belief reflects one principle upon which our capitalistic competitive society has been built .
Can one be selfish and still love self and love others ? Psychologically, love of others and love of ourselves are not alternatives or different attitudes. In fact ,the attitude of love toward oneself has been found in all those who were capable of loving others. Love is indefensible. Love is an expression of one’s powers and to love somebody is the actualization , the concentration of this power .However, selfishness is another matter as it is associated with discrimination, contempt ,power and exploitation .
The following examples were taken from the New York Times, September 6, 2026 and reflect Trump’s selfishness ,contempt and exploitative policies.1. How US Widened Effort Against Covid Scientist As Fauci Was Put Under Public Scrutiny, More Experts Were Quietly Targeted 2. Plan Would Shift Some Aid Meant for Working Parents to Stay- at- Home spouses. This move would end up redirecting money away from working parents and their childcare providers, causing some to raise their rates or even close potentially worsening. What many experts say is a childcare crisis in the country. 3. In Unparalleled Inquiry, Joint Staff Members Are Given Polygraph Tests. The Pentagon seeks the source of news leaks on the Iran war. 4. Latest Clemency Grants Issued by Trump Benefit Union Boss and a Sailor . An executive who served a decade in prison for selling crack was pardoned. 5. New Tool To Screen Voter Rolls Is Blocked. This tool would allow states to compare their voter rolls against federal citizenship and Social Security data. 6. US Says It Blasted 3 Iranian Oil Tankers. 7. For Midterms, Trump Controls $ 400 Million To Sway Races.8. Homeland Security Secretary Asks For Inquiries Into Voting Machines. 9. Justice Department Issues, Subpoenas for Voter Data in Nevada. 10. North Carolina Applies New Restrictions to its Vote- by- Mail Program. And, don’t forget his six bankruptcies; fraudulent University and fraudulent foundation.
Donald believes that he is acting in his self interest in his pursuit of money which he equates with success. It’s what he possesses, that defines himself . In trying to gain and accumulate all that wealth he has lost himself with an absence of truth, justice, freedom , morality , respect,integrity and love of self .
Is Donald selfishness identical with self-love or is it not caused by the very lack of it ? If it’s a virtue to love my neighbor as a human being , it must be a virtue and not a vice to love myself since I’m a human being too. As an object of feelings , attitudes toward others and toward ourselves is not contradictory but basically conjunctive . And importantly, love of others and love of self are not alternatives .
Genuine love is an expression of productiveness and implies care, respect, responsibility, and knowledge. It’s not an affect in the sense of being affected by somebody but an active striving for the growth and happiness of the loved person is rooted in one’s capacity to love. Essentially, if the individual is able to love productively, he loves himself too. If he can love only others he cannot love at all.
A selfish person , like Donald ,is interested only in himself , takes everything from others for himself, does not feel pleasure in giving, but only in possessing. His outside world is looked at only from the standpoint of what he can grab for himself; he’s without empathy and does not respect the dignity and integrity of others. He can not see beyond self and judges everyone and everything by its usefulness to him. Thus, Donald is emotionally unable to love but only to take.
It is apparent that selfish persons are incapable of loving others and they’re also not capable of loving themselves either. In the past 300 years or so self interest has become identical with selfishness, pursuit of material gains, power ,exploitation and success. Selfishness is not virtue but synonymous with conquest and has become engulfed in the thinking,feeling and actions of many .
Trump's pursuit of self interest is the supreme activity of his existence. His motivations are clearly based on his interests which are money ,power, status and success .His concept is” I am what I have", and “what I possess.” Check out where he places his name. He’s essentially a transaction commodity . He has brilliantly sold his false self or mask to the public with fake publicity and that inauthentic television program. His narcissistic neurosis has been on constant display especially for the past 10 years.
Trump’s exploitative self interest can also be characterized as one that prides on his ability to grab and take from others. His physical and sexual assaults on women; invading and “taking” Venezuelan oil and rhetoric regarding doing the same to Cuba, Canada, and Greenland are other examples. His attitude is associated with hostility and manipulation. Recently he’s said something - that if Republicans remain in power in the House and Senate that American adult citizens would receive $5,000. Of course, that remark is simply manipulative to say the least. And , people are judged and viewed according to him as their usefulness to him as recently illustrated by the $45,000 cash gifts to 3 of his White House aides' sycophants.
From a biblical , philosophical and psychological point of view, the ability to productively love oneself and others is not a sin but both healthy and humanistic .This selfish 80-year-old man in the White House has exploited , tarnished and marred America’s reputation both at home and abroad. His persona does not conceal his extreme selfishness. He’s an immature neurotic who lacks integrity, empathy , dignity while being a satanic leader.
Reference
Fromm, Erich. Man For Himself An Inquiry Into The Psychology Of Ethics.