"None will improve your
lot if you yourself do not."
– Bertolt Brecht
– Bertolt Brecht
Yesterday, Tony,
Chris ,Madhu and I ran the trail. We met at the fire station and ran the Olmsted
and the Coffer Dam loop. But first, Tony
ran from home and joined us at the fire station in Cool. Chris told them to go
off ahead and that he would run with me. So Chris and I ran that loop also.
During our run, I told Chris that I would run back to his house where my van
was parked. I must’ve totaled somewhere between 17 ½ to 19 miles or so.
On the first, or New Year’s Day, Tony and I are running(10
mile) The Resolution Run in Auburn. I’m going to rest on Monday and Tuesday to
determine if Sunday’s run was smart. For the past three years, my finishing time on the January
1 , run has been steady and consistent. I’ll let you know if I can keep steady
and consistent with my running time in 2014.
An article in the December 24, 2013 Wall Street Journal got
my attention. The article had to do with rearing children with a gratitude
attitude. In my experience, I find that gratitude seems to be missing in
today’s world. One researcher equated gratitude with a muscle. Philip Watkins, a psychology
professor believes that by taking time to recognize good fortune, feelings of
appreciation can increase. There have been a number of studies with having parents model gratitude behavior.
Further, psychologist Robert Emmons believes that you can’t give your kid
something that you yourselves do not have. So they suggest, teach gratitude by
modeling.
A study with 1, 035
high school students found that those students that showed high levels of
gratitude for such things as thankfulness for the beauty of nature and strong
appreciation of other people reported having stronger GPAs, less depression and
envy and had a more positive outlook than less grateful teens. The study also
showed that those students who strongly connected buying and owning things with
success and happiness reported having lower GPAs, depression, and more negative outlook.
Unfortunately,
another study that followed 355,000 high
school seniors from 1976- 2007 found that the desire for lots of money has
increased markedly since the mid-1970s, while willingness to work hard to earn
it has decreased.
Of course, this statistic is not at all surprising, but is a
sad state of affairs for young people and others in our country. In the old
days, when I grew up, one way to earn money was to attend college in order to
put yourself in a better position to open
more doors for a career choice.
Obviously, something negative has happened, in my opinion , with parental baby
boomer child-rearing. What do you think about the changing attitude of
gratitude?
Anyways, keep moving, smiling, laughing, bonding, deep
breathing, loving and teach gratitude in
the process.