Hate,
prejudice, anger and aggression towards another have been part of Homo sapiens
passion tendencies based on character since the last 30,000 years or so despite
the failed teachings of prophets and laws that have attempted to modify, change
or prohibit these destructive interpersonal interactions. “Hate Crimes” {a
prejudiced, violent motivated crime} statistically became more of a focus
during the 1980’s.While aggression is defined as “hostile or violent behavior
or attitudes toward another, readiness to attack or confront” has ranged but
not limited to angry verbal discourse, saying “no” which has been called
passive-aggressive, playing competitive sports like football, to defending
oneself or for survival, to killing another as in war, or in mass shootings or
murder.
This post addresses
the character or personality characteristics of narcissism and group narcissism.
It provides some insight for malignant aggressive behavior. Yes, there are
other character dynamics but they are beyond the present scope. Erich Fromm
described narcissism as “a state of experience in which only the person
himself, his body, his needs, his feelings, his property, everything and
everybody pertaining to him as fully real, while everybody and everything that
does not form part of the person is not an object of his needs is not
interesting, is not fully real, is perceived only by intellectual recognition,
while affectively without weight and color.” Take note, of the insignificance,
non –entity, non-importance of another who was not psychically connected.
In other words, in order to balance homeostasis or security ,the narcissistic
individual must maintain his perceived
illusion of perfection “I’m the
greatest”,” I’m the smartest”, “ I’m the most stable “
superiority over others . Further, his” extraordinary “qualities must
constantly be displayed, defended or held on by his narcissistic self-image and
identity, because it is paramount and required.
Narcissism can easily be threatened or wounded when the individual was being slighted, criticized, telling him
he’s wrong, not being loyal or even defeating him in a game .When criticized,
anger, vengeance, and getting even are consistent responses . One’s narcissism
must be fed by continued agreement,
applause, and being a “yes” man”,” You have the greatest ratings”, “The highest
turnout”, and by rallies with favorable press and media coverage.
Individual narcissism with its hate,
prejudice, anger and aggression passions can lead to group narcissism by
joining a group that has similar tendencies. In group narcissism, it’s the
particular group that becomes the greatest, the most righteous, the best, the
most powerful, the one and only, the purest, the most patriotic etc. To belong
or to be affiliated increases solidarity and cohesion. This results in making
manipulation easier {appealing to symbols like flag, star spangled banner,
country, political party etc.} with its message of hate, prejudice and
aggression. The individual can then feel proud by being part of this most
wonderful group. Like as in individual narcissism, these individuals and their
mob react with rage, anger and violence to any real or even imaginary wound or
perceived threat. The image of one’s own group is elevated while the other
group is despised, demonized, devalued, made less human or into non-persons.
Additionally, these non-humans are characterized as being cruel and disgusting
and defined as having deplorable physical characteristics like color of skin.
Further, group narcissism, historically, is one of the main causes of
destructive human aggression i.e. Hindus and Muslems; Catholics and Protestants;
Israeli’s and Palestinians; Crusades and Muslems; White Nationalists and Jews,
LGBT, Muslims, Blacks, Hispanic etc. Moreover, group consensus does not
correlate with being right, moral, ethical, patriotic or good. Having someone
agree means just that someone agrees.
Hate Crimes,
according to FBI statistics, have been on the rise especially since 2016. Hate groups also have increased from 784 in
2014 to 1,020 in 2018. Unfortunately, the President, in response to
Charlottesville 2017, reinforced his
support of hate and prejudice with these Neo Nazi , White Supremacist , Aryan
Nation groups when he said something to the effect that” there were very” fine”
{ excellent, first rate ,admirable, wonderful, great , exceptional,
outstanding} people on both sides of the rally. White Supremacy is a “racist belief that white
people are superior to people of other races and therefore should be dominant
over them.” I do not define a White Supremacist or members
of that hate group as being fine persons. Only those who are mentally disturbed
would classify these people as “fine. “These ideological groups promote and
express hatred both verbally and physically toward other groups especially
minorities.
With the
internet, it’s become easier for these
fringe groups to recruit and become
affiliated especially because of the recruits lack of life satisfaction,
insecurity, non- effectiveness, impotence,
being easily lead, having a scarcity of
material wellbeing, without healthy direction, excessive boredom, extreme hate ,alienation ,lacking empathy,
requiring excitement ,stimulation, with a disturbed conscience , and mental
health disturbance. In conclusion, all these people share a similar character
type.