To no one’s
surprise, there occurred two mass shootings last weekend. This essay has to do with man’s aggressive
nature within the context of his life space. Let’s initially take a look, at
current aspects of an amoral culture in our country. We have inept, hateful and
sadistic political divide; numerous white nationalist groups and associations;
videogames with realistic violence; a plethora of heroic murder, lying,
stealing and other amoral transgressions portrayed on TV and in the movies;
superficial reporting with excessive amounts of hate, prejudice and racism
expressed on radio, TV and social media; enormous greed and the easy
availability and unnecessary amounts of automatic rifles. It’s no surprise that
our country is number one when it comes to the number of mass murders. Let’s address
man’s developmental history and his potentiality for aggressive behavior.
There’s no argument that man is aggressive.
Aggressiveness has been explained as either a result of a drive, instinct, or a
need. Man being aggressive is not
surprising based on the anxiety, insecurity, helplessness and, dependency surrounding
birth. I will use a baseball description of balls and strikes instead of good
or bad as an analogy for potential aggressive behavior. Balls and strikes have
a different connotation than good or bad.
Man
essentially has two directions to express or exhibit aggression. Man can direct
his aggression outward toward others. A need for aggression which has been defined
by Henry Murray as: To fight. To revenge as injury. To attack, injure or kill
another. Aggression can also be expressed verbally as in sadism or sadistic
expression which is meant to hurt, or humiliate another’s feelings.
Men can also
direct his aggression inward toward self. Aggression turned inward has been called
by Murray the need for abasement which is: To accept injury, blame, criticism,
punishment. To blame, belittle or mutilate the self. To seek and enjoy pain,
punishment, illness, and misfortune. Depression and suicide are commonly understood
as aggression toward self-turned inward.
We also know
that aside from his inherited or physiological qualities, man expresses his aggression
as a result and is often related to frustration when his goal behavior is
thwarted. Moreover, learning and history have a lot to do with how, why, to
whom and when the expression of aggressive behavior is exhibited
Within this
background of aggression, let’s direct attention to the baseball analogy of
balls and strikes and their ratio to depict potential conflicts with resulting
potential for aggressive tendencies. Initially, we all start out life differently,
not equally .Employing balls and strikes to the following: the wellness and
wellbeing of the caretaker during pregnancy; the caretaker’s socioeconomic
status; the caretaker’s physical and mental health; the caretaker’s ability to
nurse; and with the caretaker’s marital status etc. , we come up with a number or a ratio. Next, let’s look at the newborn’s
physiological health, at birth; and the newborns skin color which can be called
either a ball or strike; the newborns ZIP Code or country of origin can be
called a ball or strike; the nursing, doctor and hospital care can be called a
ball or strike; the impact of the marital relationship etc. all affect this
newborn. At this point, what is the ratio of balls to strikes? Hopefully, the
baby can get to first base.
Within the
baby’s development, he’s going to attend possibly preschool and then some K-12
educational program. Once again, zip code of the school results in either a
ball or strike. Any learning disability or special needs of the student results
in either a ball or strike. The quality of education and the quality of the
sports, music and other school programs also results in either a ball or a
strike. Additionally, the quality of his peer group relationships,
experimentation with drugs, alcohol or cigarettes also can be evaluated in
terms of balls or strikes. This important time of development, of acquiring an
attitude toward academic skills, the beginning development of identity along
with the capacity for intimacy are all affected by the number of balls and the
number of strikes. Once again, the ratio of balls to strikes are important. Was
this youngster able to get to second base, is he stuck on first base or is he
still struggling at home plate?
Now perhaps
on to college. If he’s a five-star athlete or has some extraordinary talent,
colleges come running; if he is a Phi Beta Kappa with wealthy parents, then he
has plenty of options. Maybe with these individuals, they have just hit a home
run. However, for the rest, maybe there’s college accompanied by enormous
school debt. The college dropout rate is
staggering. The non-college bound can join the military; receive minimum wage;
have limited career employment opportunity; have questionable health care and
social security –retirement etc. for their future. Once again, balls and
strikes and the ratio are key components.
It’s clear
that the history of balls and strikes affect degree of frustration regarding
goal attainment. A heavy degree of frustration results in more aggression
turned outward toward others and/or inward toward self. One’s history or
batting average can be very low. If low, that equals lots of aggression.
A few words
about the frustration in the environment created by the ruling class. The
ruling class consists of the top 1% economically, with Wall Street and the
large corporations. One politician said that corporations are people. Yes, but
what kind of people? In our capitalistic-socioeconomic system, money is power
or power is money. In any event, money and power are considered positives for
those that have it and are considered negatives for those that don’t.
Based upon
someone’s detailed history, they are going to have limited or unlimited
opportunities. Sorry Jefferson, not everyone was created equal nor do they have
equal socioeconomic and educational opportunities. Unfortunately, based on who
we are, aggression is turned inward or outward. However, one word of optimism.
Freud believed that we can partially limit aggression turned inward and outward
through sublimation. Sublimation will not totally resolve and prohibit the
release of aggression. However, with sublimation, we have numerous individuals
that have excelled in all forms of the performing, literary, fine and creative
arts; in scientific and philosophical achievement; in establishing foundations;
and in sports. A home run is better than a ball and a ball is better than a
strike both in baseball and in dealing with frustration and aggression.
The
frequency and the manner in which aggression is expressed gives clues to the
character and need structure of the individual. Likewise, the character and
need structure of the individual gives clues to the manner in which aggression
is going to be expressed. Of course, the number of balls and the number of
strikes affect the development of character. Reducing the number of strikes
will result in less violence than we have today.
Personally, I
know about aggression turned inward and outward. I have engaged in fistfights,
played high school and college football. I ran the 100 mile one day Western States
endurance run at age 62 and completed the 100 mile one day Swanton Pacific Ride
and Tie at age 68. I also have participated in oral sadistic exchanges with Linda.
Believe me, sublimation behavior is less stressful.
In essence,
when a young male, at his peak or with higher levels of testosterone [promotes
aggressiveness and sexual desire]; has an unconscious feeling of powerlessness
[buying guns and affiliating with nationalistic hate clubs]; has a diffuse
identity [ hateful exclusion of those different ,allegiance, pledging and
proving loyalty , stereotyping of
enemies, readiness, openness,
attractiveness, a needy desire to belong,
an identification with authoritarian doctrines and ideas}; limited to irrational , prejudicial thinking;
coupled with a doom and gloom outlook; having a sadomasochistic character, we have, as a
result , a serious prognosis. Rear this person in an environment with an amoral
culture coupled with the greedy manufacturing of military weapons, and to no
one’s surprise we have a preponderance of murder.