“It Has Nothing to Do with Age” is a book about individuals who push themselves to physical extremes and who believe they have defied the aging process. If you are at least 30, 40, 50 years of age, join them in such sports as: theTevis Cup, the Dipsea, the Western States 100, the 100 mile ride and tie, the Hawaiian Ironman, the Molokai to Oahu Outrigger canoe race, and national and international rowing.
It Has Nothing To Do With Age provides self-help principles. The inspirational stories give concrete illustrations of overcoming many of life's challenges. Difficulties pertaining to depression, grief, divorce, and death are presented and worked through by the participants. Physical impairments, injuries, overcoming issues with weight, alcohol, and nicotine are also dealt with and resolved by the athletes.
This book provides a model on how to overcome some of the difficulties that confront all of us . Further, this read sheds a beacon of light on preventive measures for good physical and mental health. Research demonstrates that exercise is an important component in treating such ailments and debilitating illness such as depression, stroke, heart disease, brain or cognitive malfunction,and Alzheimer's disease.
I suggest that proper exercise can be used as a preventive measure for psychological, cognitive, and physical health as well. Follow my prescription and lead a better, more fulfilling, and healthier life.
This book provides a model on how to overcome some of the difficulties that confront all of us . Further, this read sheds a beacon of light on preventive measures for good physical and mental health. Research demonstrates that exercise is an important component in treating such ailments and debilitating illness such as depression, stroke, heart disease, brain or cognitive malfunction,and Alzheimer's disease.
I suggest that proper exercise can be used as a preventive measure for psychological, cognitive, and physical health as well. Follow my prescription and lead a better, more fulfilling, and healthier life.
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
What Is Jihad?
A recent article in The New York Times, Sunday, December 20, 2015 was written by the director of terrorism research at the Norwegian Defense Research Establishment. According to the writer, he researched autobiographies, videos, blog posts, tweets and defectors accounts of what radical Muslims or jihadists do when they’re not fighting. This is what he reported.
Mr. Hegghammer painted the following picture. He pointed out that Abu Musab al-Zarquari, a leader of Al Qaeda, was known as “The Slaughterer” as well as” He Who Weeps A Lot” because of his weeping during prayer, as well as when speaking about Muslims women suffering under occupation. Another jihadists wrote in a blog post “brothers were crying with him, some audible, and others would have their tears fall silently.” This director also wrote that some jihadist also weep when listening to religious hymns, watching propaganda videos, discussing the plight of Sunni Muslims and when talking about the afterlife.
There are many explanations for why we cry. Accordingly, Mohammed viewed crying during worship as something positive. So, it’s not surprising that al-Zarquari has a long history of tears as that culture reinforces that behavior. I would just raise the question, did he start off with alligator tears? And does he also cry about how his primitive culture treats women? We know they are treated as second-class citizens.
Hegghammer discovered that when the jihadist’s are not cutting off heads, they engage in art, storytelling, watching films, listening to hymns known as anashid, composing ideological songs, reading and writing poetry. Does violent aberrant behavior or storytelling and the like negate a mental illness diagnosis or hateful, prejudice and a destructive sadomasochistic character orientation? I think not.
Outstanding literary giants Jack Kerouac, Ernest Hemingway, Ezra Pound, to name a few , had a mental illness diagnosis, but did not spend their spare time, cutting off people’s heads, writing about hate and killing others of a different religion. Poets of the ages John Keats, and Sylvia Plath also did not join a gang that killed people from other groups or ethnic tribes. These individuals were productive, and contributed by giving to the world and not about dominating helpless others. The jihadists are not productive neither are they giving life to their own nor to the non-Arab world.
The New York Times writer also talked about the jihadist belief in dreams. They believe a dream contains instructions from God, as well as giving premonitions of the future. The foretelling certainly fits with Old Testament beliefs regarding the purpose of dreams. However, today we know that that explanation is not only simply hogwash but archaic thinking. These jihadist also dress alike in their gown and combat jacket on the top, avoid wearing gold jewelry and carry a tooth cleaning twig known as a miswak. All right, they look alike, belong to a gang of want to bees and are dressed similarly. To me, that sounds that they are conforming to group mores and clearly exhibit a lack of individualism. Their deadly conforming unfortunately is equated with death, destruction and suicidal behavior. To want to become part of this group, to get the thrill of combat, at the expense of weak resistance civilians is simply cowardice and sadomasochism as its worst.
I differ from the writer of the article. I do not see this culture as highly seductive in a positive light. I see it as a magnet of hate that draws on poorly educated individuals, easily manipulated, having low self-esteem, having a fragile ego, feelings of powerlessness, alienated and not adjusting to main stream Muslim culture. All mentally ill people are not violent or jihadist, but all violent destructive, hateful, racist, jihadists are mentally ill. They belong to a sick society that does not draw or recruit the best from the Muslim culture .Just ask Shaquille O’Neal.
Saturday, December 26, 2015
US and World 50 K Record Holder- Mark Richtman
Mark Richtman recently said something to the effect that he just can’t run slowly. Running slow means different things to different people. For me, at this juncture, that would mean running slower than a15 minute mile on the trail. 15 years ago, would mean something different than today. Another variable to consider would be trail distance. Obviously running one-mile on the trail is quite different from running 10 trail miles. Yes, it’s all relative for different mortal individuals.
I was first introduced to Mark about 18 years ago at a ride and tie championship held near Fort Bragg, California. I remember coming into an aid station during the race and I witnessed Mark on his equine Eli cantering away. As it turned out, Mark and his partner, Brian Purcell came in first place on that 38 mile championship race. Incidentally, Brian, came in 1st Pl., on one Western States 100 mile endurance run. Coming in second place on this day was three time Western states winner Jim Howard and 2 hour 12 minutes Boston marathoner Dennis Rinde. Their equine was Anwar Magic. Chris Turney, and Con Wadsworth came in third place on Sandelaro. Tony Brickel and Jeff Windeshausen came in 38th on Super Delight. Paul Robinson and I came in 57th on Running Bear. That was my second ride and tie event, and the first time partnering up with Paul.
I quickly learned that Mark was a world class runner and that these ride and tie events featured other world-class runners. Mark was a frequent winner on the ride and tie stage. Briefly, a ride and tie event consists of a team of two runners and a horse. Horse, rider and runner must start out together and complete the race together. The rider, at the start, gallops over the mountainous trail for a certain distance or certain strategy, dismounts, ties the horses tie rope to a tree and begins running down the trail. Eventually, his partner finds the horse, unties, mounts and gallops after his partner. This process of running and riding continues during the race duration. However, the entire team has to cross the finish line together for a completion.
In 2002, Mark came in third-place overall in the Western States 100 mile one day endurance run. I also ran that race, and was an age division winner on that day. A few years ago, Mark was attempting to break the US record for 50 miles at the Jed Smith endurance run. On that day, I ran a 50 K, while Tony was my pacer. It was apparent that Mark was not going to set the record that day as he was not running up right as he passed me. We wished him luck, as he ran by us.
Well, at the age of 60, Mark set both the US and world record for a 50 K with the time of 3 hours 34 minutes. Neither Tony nor I have ever run 31 miles that fast. Mark is still a world class runner. What makes it sweet, is that he’s a pleasant human being to be around. I don’t know anyone that’s ever said a nasty word about Mark Richtman. On the weekend, Tony, Chris Turney and I will talk more about him on our trail run.
PS
Mark and Tony are in the same age group for this next year’s Way Too Cool 50 K., Smiling, he is not in my age group.
Friday, December 25, 2015
Racism in the United States Part 2
An additional review of how prejudicial attitudes were changed regarding Syrian refugees were tracked both before and after the Paris attacks. Prior to the Paris attacks, 60% of Americans searches were asking how they could help volunteer and/or aid Syrian refugees, while 40% were negative and mostly expressed skepticism about security. After the Paris attack, the 40% rose to 80% of people that opposed the refugee issue.
These researchers concluded that anti-Muslim prejudice is not only significantly on the rise per Google research but also correlates with the expression of anti-Muslim hate crimes. These researchers also looked at the number of Google searches during and after the recent speech by Pres. Obama in the Oval Office about his plea for tolerance, combatting the irrationality of hate, and the negative idea of imposing religious tests for Muslim immigration into our country. Not surprising, Pres. Obama’s self-meaning words, not only fell on deaf ears but actually seemed to have a noticeable increase of intolerance per Google searches. It wasn’t until our president talked about Muslim athletes and Muslim soldiers that Americans began hearing him. In fact, learning that Shaquille O’Neill was a Muslim elicited, in surprise, many favorable tweets.
Sports has helped reduce racism in our country. We can now openly admire the black superstar in baseball. Jackie Robinson and the LA Dodgers can be proud of their groundbreaking statue erection achievement scheduled for 2016. Even the NFL, this past year, drafted an openly gay football player. An openly gay player in the NBA, made the news, positively last year. However, recently the NBA quickly suspended, for a game, a Sacramento Kings basketball player for making an inappropriate remark to a gay referee about his sexual identity.
Mohammed Ali was an American icon and highly respected as was Kareem Abdul-Jabbar. These two superstars are both Muslims and proud of it. Mr. Jabbar is also a best-selling author, cultural critic and extremely outspoken about the anti-Muslim rhetoric going on in our country today. He certainly is not an example of violence, hate and destruction. He is using his voice, his writing and his behavior, intelligently.
In 1969, Coach Bo Schembechler brought together his group of players and formed a very formidable team. He preached about the team, the team and the team. He would say things to them like were not red, they were not white, they were not blue but “we are Michigan. “It didn’t matter if they were black or white, he treated all the same-like dogs. Coach Schembechler knew, according to, Reggie McKenzie, that the team wins and the team loses because it’s never about one person. No one individual can win the game. The team always comes first.
In 1974, The Longest Yard, starring Burt Reynolds demonstrated that the black and white inmates came together, and formed one team. Their purpose was simply to physically hurt and embarrass the other, or the despised group-the prison guards. And they did.
Professional, and college sports have figured it out and do a good job, not perfect, at overcoming or challenging man’s nature of being judgmental towards others. These coaches certainly utilize motivational principles of” us versus them,” within the rules of the game. There are exceptions as these athletes seek to destroy and dominate their opponents on the field of play. We humans accept this fact and yell and scream when our team does well and we have no difficulty yelling at our opponents. We even politely clap when the opposing star player is carried off the field and say to ourselves something like “that’s good, we now have a better chance to win”.
Prejudice, stereotyping, discrimination exists in all thinking, feeling, living beings. It’s the acknowledgement that’s the challenge. When it can be admitted into consciousness, then a possibility for change exists. Happy Holidays.
Thursday, December 24, 2015
Racism in the United States
“Islam “has been more vilified since the September 11, 2001 terrorist attack. As a consequence of that human tragedy, we have been at war, primarily in the Middle East, and have lost many of our military persons in the process. In 2008 we elected our first black president and government functioning seemed to become even be more divisive to say the least. During Pres. Obama’s time in office, many leaders in the “opposite party,” have worked against this president and his party. It didn’t seem to matter that at one time, the other party’s leaders proposed very similar ideas or policy. For instance, Romney Care, successful in Massachusetts, was the healthcare model upon which the Affordable Care Act was based. Today, The Affordable Care Act has been demonized as being bad by many people In the Republican party and the current Republicans running for president have been talking about repealing it as opposed to improving it.
Surprising to some, psychological research in the 1920s, conducted many studies pertaining to race and intelligence. Back then, many social scientists, maintained that prejudice was a natural response to nonwhite races. Clearly the research, at the time, pointed to white superiority between the races. Explicit prejudice, make no mistake about it, was front and center. From the 1930s on, social science researchers have conducted further studies on racism and stereotyping. They have not limited their research to race and intelligence, but have diversified and have included taking a look at anti-Semitism, blacks, gays, Hispanics, women, Muslims, etc. Prior beliefs have been challenged and discarded.
Current thinking finds that prejudice is related to individuals in low status groups; their maintaining a socially dominant orientation or hierarchy view; their having rigid categorical thinking; their maintaining self-esteem; and their having a negative view of others by not being able or having a social identify with a particular group. Current research also has was found that implicit or subtle racism can be termed either symbolic, ambivalent, modern, or aversive. In other words, the expression of racism is much more subtle today. If you asked a person today if he is racist, he would more likely reply with a no. A reply such as this suggests a possible unawareness about racist sentiments versus an outright lie. The key to what we say is not always what we say, but what we do. Our behavior speaks more loudly than our words. Remember, prejudice, stereotyping is based on the perception of the beholder.
Turning to the Sunday, December 13, 2015 edition of the New York Times, I found an article depicting” the rise of hate.” Two writers evaluated Google searches in our country in order to assess attitudes about Muslims. A few of their findings were as follows: 1. After the massacre in San Bernardino, the top Google searches in California were “kill Muslims”; martini recipes, migraine symptoms and the Cowboys roster. 2. From 2004 - 2013, a direct correlation [Google searches] was found between anti-Muslim searches and anti-Muslim hate crimes. 3. In 2014, according to FBI, Muslim hate crimes represented 16.3% of the 1,092 reported. Anti-Semitism topped the list at 58.2% 4. Muslim hate crimes are currently higher than at any time since the September 11 attacks. 5. Last month, there were 3,600 searches for “I hate Muslims” and 2,404 “Kill Muslims in the United States. People making expressive searches about Muslims are likely to be a perpetrator of an anti-Muslim hate crime. 6. There were 200 Muslim attacks in 2015, making it the worst year since 2001. 7. Negative prejudiced attitudes about Muslims today are higher than any other group in any month since 2004 when Google began preserving data search.
Google bias is not representative of all the individuals in the United States, and therefore is likely to be a better predictor of hate crimes. Public opinion polls are supposed to be a representative sample and very different from an individual searching or employing an Internet search.
To be continued
Saturday, December 19, 2015
What's Your Health Span? Part 2
I suspect that the food industry back then, did not have its 80,000 or more chemicals available to them at their disposal. Nor was I aware of the nature of the toxic chemicals found in so many of our household products like plastics, etc. I just don’t remember plastics as being so prominent. However, today’s youth are presented with many more challenges. The National Cancer Institute, for example, reported that virtually every pregnant woman in the America has at least 43 different chemical contaminants in their body. The negative result from these chemicals is that babies are now born “pre- polluted.” Further, The International Federation of Gynecology and Obstetrics issued a warning that called toxic chemicals, in essence, endocrine disruptors. This means that these chemicals imitate sex hormones and often confuse the body. Troubling, is that these chemical disruptors are found in plastics, shampoos, cosmetics, cash register receipts, food can linings, flame retardants and many other products. Not only that, but these endocrine disruptors are related to the health issues of cancer, diabetes, obesity and infertility.
It has also been reported that the chemical lobby spent over $121,000 per member of Congress this past year. It is clear, that simply discovering that special diet and purchasing that latest and remarkable fitness machine will not guarantee living a healthy life. For the caveman, his lifespan was shortened not by ingesting too much food, or lack of exercise, but result of the many wild and poisonous creatures dealt with and from not recovering from infections. He was fortunate in that he didn’t have to deal with the creation of all the man-made hazards. We’re not so lucky, as our biggest threat to our health is what man does to each other. Remember, a politician said “corporations are people.” And I’m just talking about the food and chemical industry.
Buyer beware can be taken seriously. Our life expectancy and health span expectancy is not totally controlled by genetics. Life expectancy, on average, in the United States was estimated in 2015 at 77.32 years for males and 81.97 years for females. And a review of over two dozen centenarian studies focusing on healthy lifestyle habits revealed 16 habits that increased an individual’s odds of dramatically increasing physical, emotional and cognitive functioning. Be apprised that all 16 of these habits are under the control of the individual. Eight of these gems include: 1. Keep weight, low and steady 2. Eat fewer calories 3. Exercise regularly, be active, and stay busy after retirement 4. Don’t smoke or stop smoking, if you do 5. Drink less alcohol 6. Get regular and restful sleep 7. Challenge your mind 8. Stay socially connected with serenity and purpose in life
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My friend Tony, age 64, just returned from running a 50 K trail run in Washington State. At age 76, I intend to run my two annual 50 K trail runs in 2016. Just think, next year, at this time, I shall be close to the average life expectancy for males in our country. That’s a sobering statistic. 2400 years ago Hippocrates had the correct advice “if we could give every individual the right amount of nourishment and exercise, not too little and not too much, we would have found the safest way to health.”
Today’s source was found in the New York Times, Sunday, November 29, 2015 and the Institute for Natural Resources, 2010.
Friday, December 18, 2015
What's Your Health Span?
The idea that a reduction in food intake along with some form of exercise leads to improved health is not a new or revolutionary idea. Nor, the idea, that man is driven toward seeking pleasure and/or pain as well as being motivated to direct that behavior either towards self and/or toward others. As far as eating behavior goes, there are numerous dietary plans such as Atkins, Scarsdale, Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem, Dash, Jenny Craig, Ornish, TLC, Mediterranean, etc. that provide numerous choices for the consumer. Advertising demonstrates that there is not a shortage of celebrities providing testimonials touting their successful achievement in regards to weight loss or healthier eating. Yet, in spite of the plethora of dietary choices you, calorie posting by restaurants and food ingredients labeling many Americans, still remain unhealthy and exhibit poor dietary choices.
We’re wired to experience euphoric feelings in the right orbitofrontal cortex as opiate release precipitates the intake of foods high in fat and sugars. In other words, we get high [psychological comfort or pleasure] on these highly preferred foods that contain too much sugar and too much fat. Now days, it’s just too easy to overeat. It wasn’t that way in the Stone Age as our ancestors were required to walk [genetic design] anywhere from 6 to 20 miles per day while performing nomadic hunting and food gathering daily. In essence, we began life with an absence of obesity. Now we have invention, science, civilization and obesity.
Further, as result of all our man-made conveniences in the 21st-century, we’re not moving as much as our Stone Age family. As a result, we now have many creative physical exercise programs to choose from in order to replace having to walk that 20 miles per day. In fact, these wonderful programs and workouts can be directed for losing weight, burning fat, increasing muscle and fitness, body building, women’s health, total body transformation, CrossFit, The New Scientific Seven Minute Workout, along with numerous apps to assist in the process. And still, many Americans die from issues related to obesity. Is it simply that man is destined to exhibit self-defeating behaviors, irrespective of all the information and products that are available to the consumer? We know that movement is a necessary aspect, yet difficult for our citizens to engage long-term.
Another factor not generally considered as an important variable, but certainly part of the terrible epidemic to consider, is the amount of toxic chemicals found in the environment and chemical makeup of foods that are available to us. Just look at the ingredients in a carton of milk or a cup of soup and you’ll find an unhealthy amount of sugar and salt on those labels. As a young lad, I didn’t look at the label on the milk carton to view the amount of sugar. Now, I wonder if there was a label on the carton or how much sugar I was ingesting. I just automatically poured milk on my morning cereal? I certainly, at that time, wasn’t concerned about food consumption or what I was putting into my body. I was physically active, enjoyed sports, enjoyed eating and was in good health.
To be continued
Sunday, December 13, 2015
Are Jim Harbaugh And Bo Schembechler Giants ? Part 2
A comparison not generally looked at but no less important, as game statistics, would be the character development of all these young men. Coach Bo Schembechler was much more than X’s and O’s as his former players know. For Bo, the formula for success had to do with some of the following variables. The importance of team was paramount for success. This meant that the participants had to keep their self-inflated egos in check. It was not about “I” but “we”. Everyone that played for Bo heard that message loud and clear and over and over. If the team was successful, then, players would be properly noticed, and given well-deserved honors. When the team solidified it became like “a band of brothers,” according to Mike Keller, formerly of the world champion Dallas Cowboys. The players knew that if they did their individual assignments and took care of their responsibilities on every play then everyone or the team would benefit. In fact, that 1969 team’s camaraderie continues to remain high even today.
Bo also implanted the seeds and added the fertilizer that allowed the mental thinking to change. The players began to believe that everything was possible and nothing impossible. Their cognitive synapses radically changed with a reframing of thinking-“I can” and “we can” became inculcated and exhibited countless times. In essence, self-concepts changed more realistically with a much stronger belief in self. In other words, the players developed different- higher level of aspiration or expectations. They expected to dominate or destroy their opposition per all Pro, Reggie McKenzie of the Buffalo Bills and Seattle Seahawks. The players expected to win and win and win and they did. With the ability to change one’s thinking resulted in the idea of a higher purpose in life and gave much-needed meaning to their lives. This message was generalized in that these young men identified and became Michigan Men, prepared to tackle the world and then also be productive solid citizens and leaders in their respective communities
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Coach Harbaugh also learned these important variables or concepts from his former coach. So far, his team far exceeded preseason won and loss expectations. Coach Harbaugh seems to be teaching, molding and formulating team cohesiveness. One recent example of that was when coach Harbaugh presented all 44 of his fourth and fifth year seniors M Ring’s ,at the annual end of the year banquet, for their contribution to the Michigan program. It didn’t matter if they were a starter, or not as they all got their rings. They were all part of the team. Jim Brandstatter, the voice of the Detroit Lions and Michigan Wolverines totally agreed with coach Harbaugh in that it’s an entire team approach and everybody contributes-maybe the sum of the parts is greater than the whole. Bonds can be formulated when everyone is acknowledged and importantly treated fairly. Paraphrasing Harbaugh, he told his players that a “Michigan Man” takes responsibility for self, is respectful for what Michigan has done for them and do more to make Michigan proud, while venturing out into the world. Coach Harbaugh also said while praising his team at last Monday’s banquet that their selflessness and play “got our dignity back.”
Coach Jim Harbaugh established his identity while playing for Bo at the University of Michigan. He went out into the world after his playing days at Michigan, and had a lengthy NFL career. He also coached at the collegiate level, and at the professional level. However, when given an opportunity to return to Ann Arbor, his words are consonant with his behavior as he talks the talk and walks the walk, just like a true “Michigan Man.” Who said you can’t go home again? And furthermore, Coach Jim Harbaugh is modeling by giving back to his alma mater in a most profound and concrete way. Let’s watch the story unfold a we are only in the beginning chapter.
Go Blue!
Saturday, December 12, 2015
Are Jim Harbaugh and Bo Schembechler Giants?
The regular season for the University of Michigan football team has ended. Let’s compare and contrast Bo Schembechler’s first year season to Jim Harbaugh’s first year season. It’s relatively easy to point out that Bo was the winningest head coach in Michigan football history with a 194-48-5 record from 1969 to 1989. We can’t, in no uncertain terms, predict, Jim Harbaugh’s future record, nor believe, at this point, whether or not Coach Harbaugh can meet the standard that Bo Schembechler set for winning football.
First, Schembechler inherited, from coach Bump Elliott quite a cast of young, talented and athletic footballers. Many of those recruits became All-Americans, including Tom Curtis, Jim Mandich, Henry Hill, Dan Dierdorf, Billy Taylor, Reggie McKenzie, Thom Darden, Mike Taylor, and Mike Keller and many more were also drafted to play professional football. In fact, All-American Dan Dierdorf was inducted into the NFL Hall of Fame. However, coach Bump Elliott’s team in 1968 was demolished and embarrassed by Ohio State in the final game of that season. Despite that whipping, Coach Elliott’s team finished that 1968 season with an 8-2 overall record.
Newly hired coach Bo Schembechler, with Elliott’s cast of characters, molded, and solidified that team into such cohesiveness that the Michigan Wolverines spanked the heavily favored, undefeated and ranked number one Ohio State Buckeyes on November 22, 1969 in front of 103,588 fans. Do not forget that Schembechler’s 1969 team lost regular-season games to a ranked Missouri team and to Michigan State. But make no mistake about it, the die, imprint or formula was established, and the transformation of Michigan football began and took off like a powerful space rocket headed for unknown out of this world galaxies.
On the other hand, Jim Harbaugh inherited, from Coach Brady Hoke, a Michigan team that had a 5-7 record in 2014. Even though they had seven losses, some said that they had a group of pretty decent players on defense. In fact, cornerback, Jourdan Lewis, this year, was elected to be a first-team All-American by USA Today. Will other Harbaugh’s inherited players become All-Americans, drafted and play in the NFL or become NFL Hall of Famer’s? It is too soon to tell as to which coach inherited the better athletes. A prediction for what it’s worth, is that Harbaugh’s inheritance will come up short, as far as football talent. Despite that potential fact, Harbaugh’s 2015 team attained a 9-3 record with losses to ranked Utah, and to college football playoff bound Michigan State University and to just missing the final four cut Ohio State University.
We may not be able to conclude, at this juncture, whether Harbaugh’s first year as Michigan’s head coach was as successful as Bo’s first year as Michigan’s head coach. According to Coach Harbaugh, he reported that before he became head coach, the Wolverines were headed in the wrong direction. And now, the 2015 team stopped that momentum and the train is now picking up steam and heading on a trajectory that would bring a smile to Bo’s face from his lofty position. Without a doubt, we can all agree that coach Harbaugh is a masterful coach, acquires outstanding staff and is supreme when it comes to recruiting.
To be continued.
Friday, December 4, 2015
Being at the Big House
Last Friday, November 27, 2015 Dave Halpin and I left for Ann Arbor
in order to see the University of Michigan Wolverines demolish the Ohio State
Buckeyes. Dave, a new member of our Monday night football group, had never
attended a football game. The preceding Monday I inquired whether Dave wanted
to attend the college game of all games. He said yes and I contacted, Michigan
Football Association Network President Jim Betts for two tickets to the game.
Yes, we had tickets.
I must admit that I was disappointed after the Michigan loss to the
Spartans earlier in the season. I figured that loss would greatly inhibit their
chances to play in the Big Ten championship game. Then, Michigan, was
victorious against the Golden Gophers, the Hoosiers, the Knights and the
Nittany Lions. I was concerned that the Michigan defense, at times, looked
spotty at best. However, the Wolverines did win those games even though both
Minnesota and Indiana ran the ball against them exceedingly well.
Then, I witnessed the Spartans being victorious over the Buckeyes.
That Michigan State squad completely shut down the mighty Ohio State running
attack. Not only that, the Buckeyes did not look that awesome on that particular Saturday, and particularly
when their star running back Elliott criticized coach Meyer for not allowing
him to run the ball more. I wanted to believe that the Wolverines were poised
for an upset over the favored and higher ranked Buckeyes. Thinking, or should I
say rationalizing the reality, I wanted my Wolverines to win that game against
the Buckeyes. If Michigan won that game,
and Michigan State lost to Penn State’s Nittany Lions then, Michigan would play
in the championship game. So Dave , immersed in the wonderful dynamics of being at the Big house with approximately 112000 fans would also later have an opportunity to
meet, coach Jim Harbaugh on his radio show the following Monday.
Game day started off well as we arrived in Ann Arbor early in the
morning. We parked and accompanied another fan to the Stadium while walking by
the numerous tailgates. We reached the Stadium and headed for the Michigan
Football Association Network tailgate. There, we ate and talked with former
players Dierdorf, Caldo, Fisher, Newell, Wangler, Betts and Brandstatter. After
eating and interacting, we walked around the Stadium, taking in all the sights
even stopping at an M den were Dave bought a warm M hat. All was good. We
headed to our seats, which were close to the field and in view of the 35 yard
line.
The game was somewhat even at first as the Michigan defense held the
Buckeyes on 3 downs near our end zone, and they had to punt. We couldn’t
believe that a flag was thrown. Michigan was penalized for a phantom running
into the kicker call. The game was close, and somewhat even at this point. However,
with that first down the Buckeyes subsequently marched down the field and
scored their first touchdown. Possibly, Michigan would’ve gone into the
halftime with the lead, instead of being behind 14 to 10. Was that a momentum
shift, or was that foreshadowing of things to come? The only thing that was
certain was that Michigan was unfairly punished.
Now in the second half, the Wolverines were pulverized. They were
outplayed and the Michigan players did not make the plays. Offensively,
Michigan’s front five could not block Ohio State’s with the result, Michigan
averaged about 2.2 yards per running play. Even Jabrill Peppers failed to
ignite the running attack. Rudock was able to pass the ball under duress until
he was injured. On defense, the Wolverines defensive line was pushed around,
leaving gigantic holes for the pistol offense generated by quarterback Barrett
and running back Elliott. They averaged about 7.7 yards per running play.
Michigan’s linebackers were nowhere to be found as well. For those 30 minutes,
Michigan was severely outplayed and were no match for Urban Meyer’s team. His
offensive and defensive line and linebackers athletes were more spectacular and
physically better than Harbaugh’s. And just recently, Michigan’s defensive
coordinator and linebackers coach was promoted to become the head football
coach of the University of Maryland Terrapins.
So in Harbaugh’s first year coaching, his performance was similar to
Schembechler’s in that they both lost to Michigan State. However,
Schembechler’s team beat the mighty
Woody Hayes Buckeyes team and finished the season with an 8-2 record
compared to Harbaugh’s 9-3 record. The Michigan-Harbaugh story is not finished,
and I will not make any predictions. Hail to the Victors and Go Blue.
PS
Dave loved his first football experience.
Friday, November 20, 2015
Tragedy in Paris
The idea or concept of a monotheistic God is not new, and has
culturally developed into the idea that the Supreme Being is patriarchal. Prior
to receiving the 10 Commandments on Mount Sinai, in the Old Testament, we find
the notion of a despotic, jealous God that considered man, whom he created, as
his property. In this phase of religion, God not only drove man out of paradise,
he subsequently decided to destroy the human race by flood, with the exception
of his favorite son Noah. Then a new phase began when God made a covenant with
Noah and promised never to destroy the human race again. This became a covenant
by which he is bound. He was now tied to his own principle, of justice. God was no longer a despotic tribal chief, but
now became a loving father and perpetuated principles of justice, truth and
love. In other words, God is truth, and God is justice. Much later, God gave
his commandments, giving a formula for justice, truth and love to all. Thou
shall not kill is just one illustration.
We also know that man because
of massive insecurity, the power of nature and his separateness or aloneness
was psychologically driven to achieve union or affiliation with others. This
union because of aloneness, at times, drove the individual self to disappear,
assimilate and become part of the group or the herd. This need for belonging
results psychologically in not having many thoughts or feelings that are
different, and to rigidly conform to the various custom, dress and ideas or the
patterns of that particular group.
Currently, we have given
massive attention to a significant minority with Middle Eastern roots. These
groups of men and women have become affiliated with the multitude of different
terrorist organizations, or simply gangs. We hear and witness their death and self-destructive
bonding in the civilized world. It’s not uncommon for them to commit suicide
while murdering others. It’s hard to fully comprehend and believe that their
God has a mission to destroy anyone, not believing in him, nor would justify
the suicide of his own so called followers. This nonsense sounds like
prejudicial hate to me.
Charles Manson and his
followers killed others, but they did not strap suicide, explosive to
themselves. Jim Jones and his followers committed suicide, and did not go
around chopping off the heads of others. So, do we have a God that combines the
pathological behaviors of a Manson and Jones? I think not. I would like to believe
that one whom employs rational thinking as opposed to magical thinking would not
support that type of behavior and follow a leader like those two sociopaths. By
the same token, anyone that buys into the notion that both homicide and suicide
are virtues and following a good book are simply exhibiting primitive and
infantile thinking. And the idea that there are virgins in the sky to follow is
also idiotic and illustrates a non-logic illusion. However, if there is promise
of money, glory caliphate rule to follow, then the path to destructive and
hateful behavior is accompanied by denial, rationalization of thinking within
their life space of non-human, belittlement of self-existence.
When you see these young
testosterone driven men on TV, they seem aggressive in showing and shooting
their weapons and all conformingly dressed like pirate revolutionaries. Notice,
that the women are not dressed as flashy nor do they exhibit or show off with
guns, etc. One aspect that makes these thugs so dangerous is that our world
globe has shrunk. They talk about death and destruction in the Middle East,
Europe and in the United States. Unfortunately, anyone that wants to commit
suicide and kills others in the process can, at times, do just that and make it
happen. This story is far from over. Ideally, and in the development of a
mature civilization or culture, God is supposed to be associated with justice
and love between man and man. Obviously, many in these societies think otherwise
and exist with the old motto “live to kill and be killed?” Unfortunately, this
self-destructive madness is not going to vanish and go away overnight.
Sunday, November 15, 2015
The Relevance of the 10 Commandments Part 2
Our conscience develops as a result of early training by parents, caretakers,
and significant others. We are taught right from wrong, good and bad and often
with consequences for those behaviors. Our parents and caretakers also
incorporate and are significantly influenced by the ideas, messages of the local
and national culture. Since the turn of the 19th century, we have
witnessed large-scale wars, it seems, on a regular basis. In fact, I remember
years after the H-bomb being a pupil at Wayne Elementary school and going into its
basement during an air raid drill. We didn’t hide under the desk, we simply
heard the bell, lined up and the class, in single file, marched to apparent
safety. This was the Cold War with all those nuclear devices from Russia
pointed in our direction. What about the commandment “thou shall not kill?”
It’s not uncommon for someone
to lie or cheat, especially but not limited to politics. I remember hearing a
Congressman, shouting out during one of President Obama’s speeches that he
lied. I would call that “thou shall not bear false witness against thy
neighbor.” There’s even a current political ad criticizing or accusing a
politician of keeping company with prostitutes.
Our capitalistic economy,
allows the competitive nature of man to get ahead. We now know that roughly 1%
have acquired much wealth and possessions. There was a recent movie with
Leonard DiCaprio titled “The Wolf of Wall Street” that depicted many of the 10
Commandments being broken and ignored. I would hate to believe that this film
depicts the majority of Wall Street or the 1%ers.
In spite of religion, or spiritual
teachings, it’s no wonder that the development of conscience has suffered.
Religion may say, “Thou shall not kill” and yet the government says our biggest
budget expense is the military-industrial complex. Lying and giving mixed
messages seems to be more universal as well. And it does not seem to matter,
even if on TV. In fact, there’s even “fact checks” after the so-called
presidential debates. These presidential individuals model inconsistencies in
their version of telling the truth. And these are potentially our leaders. If
they can distort the truth, without any consequences, that’s a pretty clear
negative anti- 10 Commandment message.
It’s no wonder that our
conscience has been weakened and that’s likely a big reason and explains in
part man’s destructive behavior toward fellow man. Man’s instinctual nature and
need structure hasn’t undergone major changes; man’s intelligence and
understanding has leaped ahead, but his interpersonal and humane treatment has
suffered. We see and hear far too much death and destruction that it seems
commonplace. Yes, we are becoming numbing to that reality. Perhaps, the pursuit
of happiness is an illusion and not attainable for the masses.
Some might wonder if we’re
headed in the wrong direction. Because if we are, that suggests to me that
things are not getting better. And perhaps the political divisiveness is a
symptom of growing insecurity, helplessness and insignificance to make a
difference. A number of years ago, the existentialists wrote that God is dead.
What that suggests is that our moral compass might be on a very different path
from what our spiritual profits talked about early in our history of
civilization. And, perhaps, these early Commandments are not applicable to our
present day. If they’re not applicable nor followed by our leaders, then we
have to stop pretending their importance. In any event, to make a change in the
moral aspect of man with an intact superego or conscience, individuals, society
and the culture have to lead the way. That likely means that individuals have
to first, if they can, begin treating themselves in a more rationally, physically
and psychologically healthy way, in order that they can treat others more
appropriately. If interpersonal behavior becomes more humanistic, then the
treating of others, becomes more of the same.
Friday, November 13, 2015
The Relevance of the 10 Commandments
After my short 6 mile trail run with my friend Tony, I thought more
about our trail conversation. The current state of things in our world is
troubling. Yes, it’s true that
civilization has made tremendous strides in so many areas as a contrast to
primitive man. Not only have we traveled to all parts of our globe, we have
also been on the moon and continue making discoveries about Mars and the rest
of the Milky Way galaxy.
Intellectually, there have been
giant strides medicine. We have developed medicines to halt various diseases.
We continue to gather more information and understanding about diseases like
Alzheimer’s, heart disease, etc. We are also better able to understand the
workings and mechanism of the brain and adjust the various neurotransmitters
associated with depression or anxiety.
We have developed powerful
machines from steam, internal combustion engine, electric cars, solar heating
and cooling to nuclear energy within the last 250 years. We are now better
equipped to combat with the terrifying forces of nature than ever before.
Although, it’s true, that global climate change issue stands before us. And
thanks to Silicon Valley and other pioneers, we now have superfast computers
and a whole host of wonderful handheld gadgets that simplifies lifestyles.
Are we now happier since the
forming of our US Constitution? Thomas Jefferson referenced the pursuit of
happiness, in that terrific document. Intellectually, there have been leaps and
bounds of what man in the year 2015 knows, compared to primitive man 6000
years ago. Let’s go back around 6000 years and we find early man, much more
fearful and helpless in dealing and coping with the natural world. Death and
disease was prevalent and the average
lifespan was about, give or take 50 years less than it is today in our country.
According to the Old Testament,
God on biblical Mount Sinai gave the Israelites, The 10 Commandments or the
Decalogue. Some of them are as follows: Thou Shall Not Take the Name of the
Lord Thy God in Vain; Honor Thy Father and Thy Mother; Thou Shall Not Kill;
Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery; Thou Shall Not Steal; Thou Shalt Not Bear False
Witness against Thy Neighbor. Thou Shalt Not Covet-Neighbor’s House; Thou Shalt
Not Covet-Neighbor’s Wife; Thou Shall Not Covet-Neighbor’s Servants, Animals or
Anything Else. These religious rules, or ideas were established to assist
individuals and provide a moral code or framework to better function within society’s
restrictive framework. There is good behavior, and there is bad behavior that
affects individuals getting along with each other. By practicing many of these
10 Commandment behaviors, societies with the rules of law function
theoretically more efficiently and more fairly for the masses.
Thinking about the nature of
man’s life and destructive drives, about some of his needs, such as abasement
[accepting injury, seeking and enjoying pain, punishment, etc.]; achievement
[accomplishing something difficult, to rival and surpass others, etc.];
affiliation [cooperates with an allied other, to win affection, remain loyal to
a friend, etc.] autonomy [the shakeup of restraints, to resist coercion and
restriction]; defendance [to defend against assault, criticism and blame ,
etc.]; dominance [to control one’s environment, etc.]; rejection [to separate self
from a negatively affected object, etc.] to name a few. Likely, this aspect of
the nature of man has not changed significantly. However, on the other hand, it
appears that man’s development of conscience or superego has been adversely
affected.
To be continued
Friday, November 6, 2015
Insight into Bo's Warriors
On November 22, 1969, a slaughter was supposed
to take place in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Mighty number one ranked Ohio State
University was a 17 point favorite to demolish the Wolverines. This rivalry
pitted the winningest teams in college football. However, the year before,
Woody Hayes, the tyrant, legendary coach of the
Buckeyes went for a two-point conversion on their last touchdown, making
the score 50 to 14. How could the Wolverines compete in this battle? Did it
matter that their coach Bo Schembechler was in fact a position coach under
Woody years before, and now the enemy?
Nine men
tell their account of that classic football event, of how, what, and where it
happened. Once again, the underdog David
again beat mighty Goliath. Their account dissects a multitude of stories within
a story. Bo Schembechler, in no uncertain terms, was an obsessive, ruthless
control freak in dealing with his young men during practices and on the field
of play. In fact, he told them in no uncertain terms that he was going to treat
them all the same “like dogs.” He was true to his word. His practices were
brutal, physical, regardless of potential pain, and punishment. He rationalized
that he was going to change their country club psyche into one of attaining and
reaching higher unfathomable levels of physical and mental toughness. In fact,
Wolfman Frank Gusich heard the NFL scouts remarking, “these guys practice hard.” Defensive end linebacker Mike Keller said “in
many ways our games on Saturday were easier than our practices. “ Bo kicked,
quarterback Jim Betts in the ass for dropping a snap from center during
practice. Bo also ran after, slapped, and screamed at Jim Brandstatter thinking
that he missed his block in practice resulting in the blocked kick. Jerry
Hanlon, one of the coaches, told him that Jim made his block and Bo replied, “He
needed it anyway.”
There was a
time when All-American, all Pro, Reggie McKenzie was talked out of quitting the
team by his family. Reggie didn’t quit, and became a dominating force at
Michigan and in the NFL. When given an opportunity to play in an All-Star game
coached by Bo and Bear Bryant, Reggie made up the story and said to Bo, he was
unavailable. Reggie told me he was through with that son of a bitch. On another
occasion, defensive end Cecil Pryor knocked a fellow teammate out of the boxing
ring during a so called conditioning drill. Bo immediately jumped into that
ring and confronted Cecil with “if you want to fight someone, fight me.” There
are other countless examples of disrespect, physical and verbal aggressiveness
during their U of M careers. Yet, each of these men today tell me how much they
love Bo Schembechler and would go through again the abasement, putdowns, embarrassment and
belittling by their Bo Schembechler. Their ambivalence of hate and love for
this man was made clear.
Another
story within a story was the individual players, insecurity, or lack of
self-confidence about their ability to play on the big stage. Mike Keller was a
big fish in a little pond, in Grand Rapids, Michigan. He wondered why he was
given a scholarship and hoped to make the traveling team at best. This
All-American was drafted by the world champion Dallas Cowboy In the third
round. Thom Darden, 173 pounds soaking wet, doubted his ability to play. After
making a tackle behind the line the scrimmage, his confidence improved. He
became Bo’s first Wolfman, All-American, first round draft pick of the
Cleveland Browns, and became their all-time interception leader. Tom Curtis,
initially, a quarterback, fought the town crier who spread the rumor that he
would not even make the traveling squad. Tom became the all-time leader in
Michigan history for interceptions and attained two Super Bowl rings in the
NFL. Tackle Jim Brandstatter also insecure went to the University of Michigan
and didn’t become secure until he made a bone crushing block, resulting in a
winning touchdown. Incidentally, Jim’s father was an All-American at Michigan
State University, and his older brother, a tight end for Duffy Daugherty.
Thom Darden
from Sandusky, Ohio, didn’t dare dance with a white girl, in that segregated
community. His parents among everyone else would not have approved. Then he
goes to the University of Michigan during tumultuous times of Woodstock, free
Angela Davis, burning draft cards, burning bras and free love. Yes, Thom took
advantage of his celebrity status with all the admiring groupie white girls. Thom Darden, Reggie McKenzie and five other of
his Mellow Men joined by the Black Panthers in a campus demonstration, with
their M sweaters actually blocked and closed down the engineering building to
other fellow students
All these
men, even with Frank Guich’s death of his father and welfare bound; Jim Betts
alcoholic father and bedridden mother;
Reggie McKenzie’s limited blue-collar father with community financial
assistance on one hand, and on the other with Country Club ease for Jim
Brandstatter, Fritz Seyferth, Mike Keller, and Tom Curtis came together as
one. But, in spite hardships or
financial security, they all exhibited mental toughness, will to compete, and
not giving up, irrespective of the unreasonable demands made by their coach on
the field. Witnessing the 100,000+ mass celebration of fans rushing onto the
field of play after the final whistle that November day of the Wolverines
victory, says it all. Mike Keller told me that he was exhausted and on the
field for that final play, and if it wasn’t for the fans, protecting him, leading
into the tunnel he would been trampled. These men all say, on that historic day,
that they experienced their greatest joy, satisfaction, and oceanic feeling
with their teammates and adoring fans.
Go
Blue!
Sunday, November 1, 2015
Wolverines on the Rebound Part 2
On October 31, the Wolverines played the Golden Gophers before a
full house in Minneapolis. To make things more interesting, in the battle for
the Little Brown Jug which is the oldest trophy in college football, the
University of Minnesota’s head coach resigned the previous Wednesday because of
health reasons. Coach Kill was beloved by all. The team was told to play for
coach Kill and with passion. The tribute for this beloved coach was apparent
during the entire game. In fact, the Minnesota players were jumping with glee
on the sideline all during this fierce battle.
Although Michigan was favored
to recapture the Little Brown Jug, you would never know it as the Golden
Gophers made big play after big play and in some ways dominated play. The Gopher
players were spectacular on both sides of the football. Their offense scored
two touchdowns and four field goals while there defense limited Michigan’s
running offense, and even intercepted a shovel pass.
To make matters worse, Michigan
quarterback Jake Rudock was slammed to the ground and didn’t return in the
exciting fourth quarter. Rookie quarterback Speight came in and took over. This
little used quarterback had not completed a pass prior .Jabrill Peppers, in a
Michigan wildcat formation, scored one rushing touchdown and was used
creatively in the backfield for the Wolverines. Peppers also played outstanding
defense, ran back punts and kickoffs as well. The last notable Wolverine to
play on both sides of the ball was Heisman winner Charles Woodson. Peppers is
going to be in the hunt before he’s through playing for the Wolverines.
Quarterback Wilton Speight came
to the rescue, and completed a couple of passes, including the go-ahead score.
The score was Michigan 27 and Minnesota 26. Michigan was smart and went for a
two-point conversion. Again, quarterback Speight did his job and completed the
pass for a two-point conversion. Now, the score was Michigan 29 and Minnesota
26. Well, things got really interesting as Michigan kicked off to Minnesota.
For a moment it looked like Minnesota scored a touchdown with about 18 seconds
left to go in the game. The play was reviewed and the ball was placed near the
1 yard line. Minnesota could go for a field goal to tie the game or go for the
win. With 18 seconds, they went for the win. Mitch Leidner threw an incomplete
pass, leaving just two seconds left on the play clock. Again, they could go for
a field goal or go for the win. They went for the win. Mitch Leidner the quarterback took the ball
from center for a quarterback sneak, but was stopped. The play was reviewed and
the call on the field was confirmed.
Two weeks ago against Michigan
State, the Wolverines lost with 0.00 on the clock and this time with 0.00 on
the clock were victorious. I had difficulty watching the loss to the Spartans
and again was surprised at this outcome. The Wolverines are now one and one in
last-second nail biters. Not only that, the Wolverines are now in position to
win out and play the number one ranked Buckeyes at the end of November. Stay
tuned.
Go Blue!
Friday, October 30, 2015
The Wolverines on the Rebound
My book launch was
scheduled to coincide with the University of Michigan and Minnesota Gophers
battle for the Little Brown Jug. The players and I were hoping for lightning to
strike twice. Lightning first struck in 1969, during Bo Schembechler’s inaugural
season. The Wolverines record going into the Minnesota game was 3-2 with losses
against nationally ranked Missouri and Michigan State University. Bo’s team was
not yet functioning as a team. In fact, the Michigan team was behind at the
half during that battle. Coach Schembechler simply told his warriors in essence
you are the better team and don’t waste this opportunity. His Wolverines didn’t
allow the Gophers another point, in dominating the second half.
Schembechler’s
Wolverines went on a roll and for the next three games simply tore the
opposition apart. In fact, that young team couldn’t wait to play the nationally
ranked Buckeyes in Ann Arbor for its final season game. If Michigan won that
game, they would play in the Rose Bowl. History was made in that Saturday game,
in Ann Arbor. Bo’s legacy began and he is now, the legend.
Can lightning strike
twice? With new rock star head coach Jim Harbaugh, the Wolverines this
Saturday, play, the Golden Gophers in Minneapolis. Going into this game,
Harbaugh’s team has a 5-2 record with losses to nationally ranked Utah and to
nationally ranked Michigan State University. Will the Wolverines whip the
Golden Gophers and again go on to defeat number 1 ranked Ohio State University
in its last regular season game? The Wolverines will likely not play in the
Rose Bowl because of the new playoff bowl system.
Last year was a
disaster. The former players and I talked about the possibility of Michigan
beating the Gophers and turn their disastrous season around. In that game ,to
make things worse, newly installed quarterback Shane Morris received a
concussion and was not taken out of the game immediately. We were in the stands
and from our vantage point, the play happened before our eyes. Coach Brady Hoke
was criticized and, there began a snowball effect to fire coach Hoke. Athletic
director Dave Brandon did subsequently fire coach Hoke and then resigned
himself.
To be continued
Monday, October 26, 2015
Thoughts about Aggression Part 3
What we learn from our family within society affects the development
of a conscience. According to Freud, our conscience is designed to inhibit or
weaken man’s aggressive impulses. Briefly, he viewed a state of tension between
the ego and the superego. And the tension within the superego is experienced as
guilt and a need for some form of punishment. He viewed guilt as a loss of love,
or a threatened fear of loss of love resulting from bad- sinful behavior or
even the intention to perform the deed. This loss of love is likely from
another person- parent upon whom the individual was protected from a variety of
dangers. The punishment –loss of love or some restriction etc. could be from an
important person, such as parent or even from a family member, friend or society.
Let’s say that an individual child grows up in an environment in
which the parents and other family members are involved in maiming or killing
an infidel, which is the perceived enemy. And further, these family members are
not in any way punished by anyone within their milieu. Not only that, their
religious beliefs or Supreme Being- Bible interpretation does not in any way
consider killing the enemy a bad, wrong or a sin. In fact, they are told that their God
loves them for this despicable, hateful antihuman behavior. In other words,
these individuals are reared without a fear of either an internal or external loss
of love from- family, or God. Within this model, these individuals have a
distorted view of right and wrong. As a result, a necrophilia’s aggressive or
destructive impulses are not in any appropriate way able to be controlled.
Without a built-in internal mental framework or lack of conscience, these
terrorists are out of control and continue these anti-life behaviors. Not only
that, they model or teach this form of behavior to the young. Over and over
again, we view young masked individuals discharging rifles in the air, or
throwing rocks, bottles or bombs at the uniformed opposition. Behavior gets
repeated without punishment or loss of love, but instead these behaviors are
reinforced and admired by their peer group and elders. It’s difficult to expect
change in behavior, in the young, if their wishes are taken over or
internalized by the significant persons in their lives that have destructive
and hateful personal standards of their own. It would be like being reared by
an Osama bin Laden and thereby internalizing, and learning his values with his
so called conscience. The saying that an apple doesn’t fall too far from the
tree fits.
I am glad that my bleeding eventually stopped and I accept my injury
as a consequence of trail running. My impulses and conscience are in check and
I have no plan to physically hurt another. However, I did run on the trail with
Tony and Chris. As it turned out, Chris and I ran a shorter distance than Tony.
Despite that, Tony wanted to beat us, regardless which means that he was going
to push, punish or even inflict pain upon himself. Chris and I met a friend
about a quarter mile or so from the finish, and we were walking leisurely. Tony
saw us ahead of him, and did his best to catch up, regardless of the personal
cost. Out of breath, Tony caught up to us. After joking, laughing after our
run, we sat on the deck drinking refreshments. Tony got up and begin walking
and limping like a very old man. We all laughed. Tony knows about masochism as
well as sadism. He had to catch us, irrespective of the consequences. He did.
Sunday, October 25, 2015
Thoughts about Aggression Part 2
Historically, aggression, regarding religious,
political, and economic freedom goes back many years-Jews leaving Egypt, the Crusades,
the founding of our country and our own Civil War to name a few. Currently, we
know about Muslim extremists with their idea of death to the infidels, the Jews,
Israel and to anyone holding the values and attitudes in current and modern Western
culture.
We understand that adaptive aggression serves us well and is
necessary for life. However, if we view malignant aggression as a character
flaw, and that man can be driven by impulses to kill, torture and feels just
doing so, then we have a major problem. This malignant aspect sets man apart
from animal as the human animal is the only one that both kills and destroys
his own species. Individuals whose character structure have developed the
potential for killing and destroying life under pretense of God’s will, or some
other distortion are to be feared. These individuals are not worthy of being
loved as they can be characterized as loving death, destruction and are driven
to exploit and to control others. Not only are they deviants who hate life as
opposed to loving life, they have a necrophilia orientation and worship
violence and destruction. The use force ,
torture, to humiliate and kill their
possessions as their victims are not seen as individual people .These
necrophilia’s are not capable of loving
others with mutual respect, equal sharing in a non-possessiveness,
non-dominating atmosphere. This means that the hope for rehabilitation for these
individuals is extremely limited and that improving their socioeconomic,
educational conditions is not the answer.
Another characteristic of individuals that have developed an
anti-life philosophy and behavior relates to their engaging in some terrorist
bombing, killing- kidnapping episode. What is often the case, is that a
homicide mission becomes a suicide mission as well. This is perfect example of
sadomasochism behavior. The end result is in their humiliation, capture, death,
or prison. They have no future here on earth.
To Be Continued
Saturday, October 24, 2015
Thoughts about Aggression Part 1
While trail running, I started thinking about aggression after I
tripped, fell and started bleeding . My
thoughts turned to Sigmund Freud. Freud initially hypothesized about Eros, the
instinct of life. After a number of years he added the idea of a death instinct.
This dualism gives rise to the notion that there is a struggle for life within
the human species. His notion of the death instinct is more readily seen in the
dynamics of sadism and masochism. Sadism means expressing aggression towards
others while masochism turns the aggression inward towards self. In his model,
aggression, has a genetic process and can be expressed regardless of the many
influences in our environmental. The expression of aggression can be seen on a
continuum. We can express aggressive behavior verbally toward others as in
jokes, humor, sarcasm , hurtful putdowns or physically as in spanking children,
spousal abuse, and competitive sports, such as rugby, soccer, boxing or
football. On the other extreme, we have wounding, killing or destroying another.
Konrad Lorenz hypothesized that
aggression is built on a hydraulic model. It’s not a reaction to outside stimuli, but
built-in inner excitation that seeks release and will find expression,
regardless of how adequate the outer stimulus is. In other words, it’s the
spontaneity of the instinct that makes it so dangerous. In essence, it’s the
idea that aggression also has a preservative function related to the idea of
the survival of the species. Others, such as Erich Fromm and Henry Murray have
a different view as to the origin of aggression or destructiveness. For them, aggression
can be the effect or end result of behavior, influenced by child rearing, and
other social, political, economic, and environmental factors and can be found
in the personality or character development of the individual.
Aggressive and destructive
behavior at times seems to dominate the news cycle. It can be related to the
behavior of football players, either on or off the field of play. Ray Rice was
in the news for knocking out his fiancée in an elevator while Adrian Peterson
was reprimanded for spanking his child with a switch. More recently, Michigan’s
Blake O’Neill received death threats for his inability to scoop up the football
on the last play of the Michigan-Michigan State game. Thinking back, reminded
me of Jack Tatum’s violent hit that paralyzed the Patriots wide receiver Daryl Stingley.
Incidentally, the Raiders Tatum was called the “Assassin.” Don’t forget the
numerous significant injuries resulting in practice or games along with the
severity of concussions.
Not to be forgotten is our war
against the Middle East terrorists. Our government has a Department of Defense
and what’s called the best military in the world. We know how best to kill with
all the multitude of weapons at our disposal. To defend and kill against
someone shooting at you makes perfect sense. Aggression is also needed when
there are threats to political, economic or family protection. Less-than-perfect
sense for defensive aggression exists when our country tells us that it’s in
our countries best interest or national security to send troops. Maybe they
know more than they are telling or maybe the person in charge doesn’t have
accurate information?
To Be Continued
Wednesday, October 21, 2015
Tell Me It Didn't Happen
I watched last Saturday, a classic battle between two
football powers-the University of Michigan Wolverines and the Michigan State
University Spartans. Although Michigan scored first, the Spartans were close
behind. Each team’s score was followed by another score from the other team. It
was very apparent why both teams are ranked so high [MSU 7 and U of M 12] in
the national football polls. These teams are solid and well coached. Michigan
had the lead until the play clock was 0.00. The Spartans made the only play they
could to win the game and they did. As a Wolverine fan, I was dumbfounded and
shocked.
After viewing the game, I thought about the number of parallels
between the 1969 Michigan Wolverines with new coach Bo Schembechler and
currently the 2015, Michigan Wolverines with new coach Jim Harbaugh. Bo
Schembechler inherited a team recruited by Bump Elliott, while Jim Harbaugh
inherited team recruited by Brady Hoke. Schembechler inherited a team that had
an 8-2 record the year before. While Harbaugh’s inherited team had a 5-7 record
with a pretty good defense. Schembechler’s 1969 team lost to a ranked Missouri
team and lost to the Michigan State Spartans, but finished the season with a
terrific upset victory over number one ranked Ohio State. Schembechler’s team
finished with an 8-2 record. So far, Harbaugh’s team has lost to a ranked Utah
team and to Michigan State University. The Wolverines have the opportunity to upset
number one ranked Ohio State on November 28 in Ann Arbor.
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Back to the present, I wondered what Bo Schembechler might’ve done
with his 1969 Wolverines in a similar situation. So I contacted Thom Darden,
Schembechler’s first Wolman, All-American and All-Pro; Fritz Seyferth a
fullback who scored four touchdowns against the University of Minnesota, played
professional football and was an assistant athletic director for Bo; Mike
Keller a three-year starter at defensive end, played for the world champion
Dallas Cowboys and became the youngest NFL scout; and Jim Betts, played
quarterback, and defensive back, drafted by the New York Jets and currently
president of Michigan Football Athletic
Network [MFAN] a group of all former Michigan football players for their
opinion of what their coach would’ve done. Their full-length profiles can be
found in Bo’s Warriors-Bo Schembechler and the Transformation of Michigan
Football.
It is true that some can argue it’s all after the fact. It’s also
true that these players had outstanding careers along with tremendous
admiration and deference for Coach Bo Schembechler. It’s also true that these
players personally know, fellow Wolverine head coach Jim Harbaugh. The
following were their responses: 1. I would like to believe
that Bo would have kept his offense in and have the quarterback run out of the
end zone for a safety. Give them the two points, free punt to them and
hopefully the game would be over. There is always a risk to snap the ball to a
person so far back. In a situation like that with anxiety at a height just take
the ball from under center and run out of the end zone! 2. First of all it never would have happened with
Bo. He probably would never have kicked. He would put our
quickest ball carrier or WR to take the snap and run the clock out. The
Spartans never would have gotten their hands on the ball.
There was only 10 seconds left and MSU had no time outs left.3. Bo would have run on 4th down…and made it! 4. Men, you played hard and we came up short, but this is one game and this one play cannot and will not define you or this team. Go home and let's get ready for next opponent. We win as team, we lose as a team.
There was only 10 seconds left and MSU had no time outs left.3. Bo would have run on 4th down…and made it! 4. Men, you played hard and we came up short, but this is one game and this one play cannot and will not define you or this team. Go home and let's get ready for next opponent. We win as team, we lose as a team.
There you have it, input from these four men who
were responsible in large part for Bo Schembechler’s beginning success. These
players set the tone and started the avalanche like a snowball, running down
becoming larger and larger gaining momentum along the way. It is also true,
that these men loved and respected their former coach. They told me they
would’ve run through walls for this man, and they did without question.
Go Blue!
Friday, October 16, 2015
Bo Schembechler, Jim Harbaugh Smiling, Part 2
Coach Jim Harbaugh learned firsthand from Bo
about treating everyone the same and not giving anyone special privileges. Jim
learned that when he, at one time, came late to a team meeting. Bo didn’t have
any trouble telling Jim in no uncertain terms what he expected-Jim never came
late again to a team meeting. Jim’s players also know about not being late to
meetings. Jim learned clearly on that day about order [organization] and deference
[to admire and support a superior] without exception.
Coach Harbaugh also learned from Bo that players have to be able to
accept injury, blame, and even criticism; and especially admit to error on the
practice or playing field. Jim has no difficulty communicating mistakes to his
young players. Jim even admitted his mistake during one early-season game
regarding a penalty flag thrown against his team. He forgot that the NFL rules
are different than the collegiate rules and admitted so on his Monday evening
radio show in Ann Arbor. Jim can be seen
on the sidelines coaching and demonstrating to his players as they come off the
field-especially quarterback Jake Rudock. Currently, coach Harbaugh hopes that
defensive end- linebacker Mario Ojemudia
after suffering an Achilles injury will
be able to return as a fifth year starter.
With Bo, players became solidified and close. Former All-American
Mike Keller called it “a band of brothers” acknowledging it was like in some
ways, like being in a foxhole with your buddies. You look out for yourself, do
your assignment, and be willing to sacrifice your own personal glory for the
sake of your team. Players don’t have to subvert all of their personality.
However, they know that if the team is successful, the individual players are
also going to be successful. Since football as a team game, it is imperative
that you rely on that teammate next to you. Pay attention to your assignment,
be part of the team. Do your defensive
responsibility first. Once you do your responsibility, then go to the ball like
your hair is on fire. It’s always about the team, the team and the team. Respect
the team, learn the playbook and don’t get into trouble on or off the field.
In 1969, after three and two record and behind at halftime, Bo’s
players began playing as a team, and then became unstoppable. Jim’s team has a
five and one record with three consecutive shutouts. As with Bo’s teams, the
defense dominates, but Jim’s players are beginning to function in unison. Michigan, this Saturday, the 17th battles
archrival Michigan State University -Spartans. The winner in this game will
more than likely challenge Ohio State for the Big Ten title. Jim have your team
kick Sparty in the ass so we can see, Bo’s smile from here.
Go Blue!
Thursday, October 15, 2015
Bo Schembechler, Jim Harbaugh and Smiling Part 1
Bo Schembechler after many years, of sheer agony
and despair, is finally smiling again. Yes, those that know him state, that
even though he has a smile on his face, one really doesn’t know what is behind
the smile. That smile of his can represent many hidden things. In other words,
that smile can be simply a mask to keep you guessing.
Being in agony, was more than likely the result of Michigan football
being in a state of disarray and decline. Sure, the University of Michigan was
a national champion in 1997 with Brian Griese at quarterback, and All-American,
and Heisman winner Charles Woodson intercepting passes, catching passes,
running back kicks for touchdowns etc. etc. etc. Yes, Michigan won the Rose
Bowl beating the University of Washington and yes, Charles Woodson intercepted
a Ryan Leaf pass in Michigan’s end zone. All seemed great as recruits were
still flocking to play in the Big House. Michigan had a load of talent and yet
they came up short against archrival Ohio State University. How did that
happen? It certainly didn’t happen, when Bo was coaching. In fact, Bo died the
night before, Michigan was to play the Buckeyes in Ann Arbor. The press
referred to this game as “The Game of the Century” as these two teams were
ranked number one and number two in the polls. Unfortunately, Bo’s death in
2006 did not propel or motivate the mighty Wolverines enough on that day. With
Bo’s death, the Michigan Wolverines began a state of atrophy as things never
got better for the Wolverines as they simply got worse. Bo’s death was
demarcation point.
Head coach Lloyd Carr retired and Michigan experimented by hiring a
spread offensive genius named Rich Rodriguez. Rich Rod worked miracles at other
universities with this relatively new twist with an athletic running and
passing quarterback. This was quite a departure from the 3 yards and a cloud of
dust and the Pro style fundamental philosophy of Bo. Generally speaking, Bo’s
quarterbacks primarily passed the ball and his fullback blocked and ran with
the ball as well. For Bo, it was control the ball, control time on the clock
and have a superb defense.
Rich Rod didn’t last too long before he was replaced by Coach Brady
Hoke. Although Coach Brady Hoke returned somewhat to old-school Michigan
football, he was not successful either. Bo was terribly unhappy with the state
of Michigan football. For Bo, there were two main rivals-Michigan State
University, and Ohio State University. Success was defined as whipping both on
the field of play. The Wolverines record was pitiful against both of these
archrivals. Bo was in mourning, looking down from the pearly gates as Michigan
football declined significantly for far too long.
Then, when all seemed lost during the disastrous 2014 season. Coach
Brady Hoke was fired, and athletic director Dave Brandon resigned. Interim
athletic director, Jim Hackett somehow managed to snag 49er head coach Jim
Harbaugh after he parted ways with the San Francisco 49ers. The timing was perfect.
Harbaugh did not have a job, even though he had a multitude of opportunities
and Jim Hackett was looking for a new coach. Bo’s eyes started to open as a
smile came to his face, looking down at all that was taking place here on
earth. There were rumors about Jim Harbaugh and all the money Michigan was
going to pay him, making him one of the highest-paid coaches at the collegiate
level. Bo Schembechler knew from the start about his protégé, Jim Harbaugh.
To be continued
Friday, October 9, 2015
The Magic of Jim Harbaugh Part 2
Coach Jim Harbaugh is a stickler for fundamentals.
Fundamentals mean learning how to correctly block, tackle, run and pass the
football. There many illustrations of Harbaugh demonstrating proper techniques
to his players especially the quarterback. Make no mistake about it, current
quarterback Rudock is learning to be fundamentally sound at that quarterback
position. Proper blocking and tackling is the foundation for good football and
something Harbaughs learned early on from Bo Schembechler’s football staff.
With Schembechler, he learned the importance of practicing and practicing or in
other words, running the play correctly. He also learned from Bo, that one
plays how one has practiced during the week. That means practices are
competitive with hard hitting, utilizing fundamentals. The importance of
competitiveness cannot be overstated and is one of the hallmarks of a well-coached
Michigan football team. Harbaugh like Schembechler even has his players running
that weekly competitive mile under the coach’s watchful eye.
Coach Harbaugh learned from Bo Schembechler about the
importance of being part of the team. In essence, football is the ultimate team
sport. One player does not win or lose the game. With Schembechler, it was
about the team, and only the team. In changing the culture, coach Harbaugh’s
quarterback was a transfer from the University of Iowa. Rudock beat out Shane
Morris last year’s backup quarterback. Even with early struggles, Harbaugh said
that Rudock was hands-down the best quarterback, and now we know that Shane
Morris is being redshirted. Harbaugh is making sure that individual egos are
not getting in the way of playing for his team. No one is bigger than the team
as that would interfere with developing team cohesiveness. Harbaugh is creating
a band of brothers, so that each player is taking care of his own position, his
assignment and being part of the team. Each player has to respect the team and
respect the coaching staff’s decision for certain alignments. Jabrill Peppers,
for one, is learning about the dangers of freelancing versus playing his
position.
We know the physical part of the game is very important. But
perhaps more important, is the mental aspect or the mental toughness component.
In part, mental toughness is also about expectations. Coach Harbaugh brings
positive energy based on his dynamic personality. Harbaugh has succeeded at
every level, and I mean every level. He knows success and he knows about hard
work. Success is important because it leads to more success. And there’s a
relationship between success and ego- goal achievement or attainment. We all
have expectations and expectations can only appropriately rise based on
previous successes. Winning at your position means beating or dominating your
opponent. Developing that confidence builds more confidence with higher
expectations. Research shows that expectations is a personal and powerful
motivator. The Michigan Wolverines have a very different expectation level this
year than they did during last year’s football season.
Jim Harbaugh has learned and Incorporated many ideas
[teaching fundamentals, creating cohesiveness, and mental toughness with
expectations of success] over his lifetime. Having a father for a coach; an
older brother as a coach; and having a brother-in-law as a coach, has been
great modeling for this 50-year-old man. Also important was learning from one
of the best that being legend Bo Schembechler. Being intelligent, Harbaugh
knows about learning from others, and about playing the game at the highest level
possible. Quarterbacks are known as being smart, and Jim Harbaugh is as smart
as they become. Currently he has surrounded himself with terrific coaches and
already has changed the “I CAN” thinking mentality of his Wolverines. They are
his Wolverines. I know that coach Harbaugh is not totally satisfied. He
stresses improvement, improvement and improvement. He is off to a tremendous start.
Thursday, October 8, 2015
The Magic of Jim Harbaugh
The University of Michigan’s 2014 season record was
disastrous 5-7. Coach Brady Hoke was fired by athletic director Dave Brandon,
who then resigned. According to former Michigan head coach Gary Moeller, the
players practiced hard in preparation for their games. Yet, things didn’t go
well on game day Saturday as they lost more games than they had won. Interim
athletic director, Jim Hackett began searching for a new football coach. With
much speculation former Michigan player Jim Harbaugh was hired at the end of
the year, making him the 20th head coach in Michigan’s illustrious
history.
Previously, coach Harbaugh arrived in Ann Arbor, Michigan
with his parents and siblings in 1973. Jim’s father Jack was hired as a
secondary coach by Michigan coach Bo Schembechler, and young Jim at 10 years of
age had the opportunity of being surrounded by the legendary coach Bo
Schembechler, his staff and his dominating football team.
Coach Harbaugh enrolled at the University of Michigan,
played quarterback, was cocaptain along with Andy Moeller, earned All-American
honors and was third in the Heisman voting in his senior year in 1986. Harbaugh
went on to play some 14 years in the NFL [Chicago Bears, Indianapolis Colts,
Baltimore Ravens, San Diego Chargers, and Carolina Panthers] and then retired.
After retiring as a player, Jim Harbaugh was a quarterback coach for the
Oakland Raiders in 2002 and in 2003.
Jim Harbaugh became head coach at the University of San
Diego and Stanford at the college level. In both places, he turned their programs
around, leaving them very sound. He left Stanford to become head coach of the
San Francisco 49ers. There he had winning seasons and took his NFL team to the
Super Bowl, in which he lost the close game to his brother John’s Baltimore
Ravens. After leaving the Niners at the end of the 2014 season, he was in hot
demand by the Oakland Raiders, as well as other NFL teams; however, he returned
to his alma mater among much fanfare by the press, former players, alumni, and
national kudu’s from the nations sports writers and others.
Coach Harbaugh quickly assembled a coaching staff that
included: DJ Durkin; Tim Drevno; Kevin Tolbert; Greg Mattison; Greg Jackson;
John Baxter; Jed Fisch; Tyrone Wheatley; Jay Harbaugh and Michael Zordich. Some
of these individuals are new hires; Greg Mattison was retained; and a number
have been with coach Harbaugh previously. This outstanding coaching staff has
previous college and NFL playing as well as coaching experience. Coach Harbaugh
knew what he was doing as he assembled a high-level of football IQ along with
the ability to relate to his current players and potential players to come to
his program.
Prior to the 2015 season, many pundits were predicting that
Michigan would do well and likely take coach Harbaugh time to turn this program
around to its former glory. Remember, it’s the winningest football team in
college history. During 2014, the offensive of team played inconsistently, but
was kept in some of the losing games because of its defense. The defense was
expected to be coach Harbaugh’s strong point and the quarterback position was
questionable, to say the least.
At present, Michigan has four victories against one defeat.
His defensive team has been dominant. His offensive team led by quarterback
Jake Rudock has been solid, although Jake has more turnovers than expected.
However, the line play, running backs De’Von Smith, Ty Isaac, Drake Johnson and
receivers Amara Darboh,Jehu Chesson, and tight end Jake Butt have at times been
exceptional. Wolverines are currently ranked 18 and expect to be tested by
undefeated Northwestern this coming Saturday. Although the season has not
ended, it is obvious at this point that Harbaugh’s Wolverines have exceeded
expectations so far. It is safe to say, there are many reasons for this
turnaround
Tuesday, October 6, 2015
Are These Good Values? Part 2
I would add another value to Freud’s list of values. It’s about inflicting
and/or receiving pain. Sado- social masochism or self-abasement dynamics is a
present-day value. Another way of describing or referring to this dynamic is the
“bully versus victim.” This is when we have an aggressor who inflicts
psychological or physical pain on another human. This means we have an
aggressive individual or individuals that attacks, flights, injures, kills or
punishes another. A victim or the object of the aggressor can be characterized as experiencing [being hurt, accepting injury, blame, criticism,
punishment; admitting defeat; being blamed , belittled or mutilating the self; enjoying
pain, punishment or misfortune.]. Some
might question this concept as a value. So I will explain, as best I can, these
interactive behaviors. One can’t be an aggressor without someone being a
victim.
Our country continues to fund the largest
military in the world. We spend more for defense on our budget than many
countries combined. We have been at war for over 10 years in the Middle East.
If you pay attention to the media, you know that we are about to be attacked,
blown up or be killed by the dangerous world of terrorists. We build and have
more of the biggest weapons of mass destruction than any other country. On the
home front, individuals in this country under the guise of the Second Amendment,
have more guns and ammunition than any other part of the world. And the great
amount of guns purchased are not used for hunting, but for self-protection, hurting
or killing somebody else. Yes, we have home grown terrorists too.
Moreover, a
young man can join the Marines to be one of the “few and proud” to wear that prestigious
uniform. One can also expect to come back from any number of combat missions physically
and/or emotionally injured or even in a body bag. Yes, military combat veterans
have a high unemployment, and suicide rate too. One could also enter law
enforcement and be subjected to social criticism, dangerous confrontations and
even death on the job. Yes, law enforcement veterans have a high suicide rate
too. One could enter high school sports and expect the coach to yell, belittle,
criticize, or even demote, because of play at practice or during game time. Of
course, at the college or professional level one becomes injured more often
than not, as well as receiving significant head injuries or concussions. And we
all know that the NFL means “not for long.” Just think of the number of
sporting venues available like Cross Fit, judo, or other martial arts forums,
soccer, rugby, etc. where an individual can easily experience one way or the
other physical and/or emotional injury.
Just watch any
TV reality show and view, in front of all, “being fired,” eliminated from the
show by “a judge,” or by not receiving enough of the secret votes made by the
public. These popular shows, for the most part, do not express vicious verbal attacks
to their victims. But make no mistake about it, there’s criticism and
belittling. The messages is that you’re not good enough. It seems that we have
more and more reality shows where individuals surrender, resigned to take the
punishment, and accepting the shows negative in full view consequences.
Underneath the demure of many, one can find psychological pain and feelings of
hurt. And the sadistic viewing public cannot seem to get enough viewing or
watching individuals being rejected in some cases humiliated or being kicked
off or eliminated from these programs. Plus, there are no shortage of
individuals wanting to take part in this public display of self-abasement.
There many
other examples or illustrations of individuals experiencing pain in unhealthy
situations. There are numerous companies that employ sadistic supervisors along
with stressful working conditions. A recent article illustrated problems of
Amazon employees with their difficulty in adapting to this competitive
cutthroat work environment. These employees experienced physical as well as
emotional illnesses that they attributed to the work situation. Amazon is only
one such example of this phenomena as there are many more.
Many family
situations are illustrative of emotional and physical pain. It might be
physical or sexual abuse and/or juvenile delinquency behaviors being expressed
by those unfortunate. It might be drugs or alcohol as part of the family and/or
environmental culture. Certainly, the divorce rate is high in our country as
many such individuals, partner up for the wrong reasons. Mental cruelty has
been used in many a divorce case. Just ask a divorce attorney about reasons for
divorce and you find mental cruelty being used indiscriminately.
We can
expect to be abused, criticized, blamed, punished, put down and subject to
misfortune at home, at work, and even at play by someone. Even President Obama got
criticized and, in fact, was called a liar by one uncouth and disrespectful
so-called lawmaker during a presidential talk to Congress during his first
term. He also gets death threats and other unpleasant, derogatory messages. The
unregulated social media is abound with hostile, angry, insecure individuals
spreading their hate and vile messages. There have been some victims that have
even committed suicide as related to vicious social media bullying. It is
perfectly clear that the Golden Rule was intended to mean treat others in a
positive way as you would expect them to treat you and not treat others
negatively because they’re treating you negatively. Treating people civilly is
a great idea, but certainly lacking. We have an eye for an eye and a tooth for
a tooth mentality.
This is my view of our contemporary
society. And the word value is very
appropriate for our discussion. In fact, The American College Dictionary
defines value as: the things of social life toward which the people of the
group have an affective regard; and values may be positive or negative.
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