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It Has Nothing To Do With Age provides self-help principles. The inspirational stories give concrete illustrations of overcoming many of life's challenges. Difficulties pertaining to depression, grief, divorce, and death are presented and worked through by the participants. Physical impairments, injuries, overcoming issues with weight, alcohol, and nicotine are also dealt with and resolved by the athletes.

This book provides a model on how to overcome some of the difficulties that confront all of us . Further, this read sheds a beacon of light on preventive measures for good physical and mental health. Research demonstrates that exercise is an important component in treating such ailments and debilitating illness such as depression, stroke, heart disease, brain or cognitive malfunction,and Alzheimer's disease.

I suggest that proper exercise can be used as a preventive measure for psychological, cognitive, and physical health as well. Follow my prescription and lead a better, more fulfilling, and healthier life.

Friday, September 12, 2025

Linda

 


Linda, last week ,entered her 93rd year.  She was born in Kankakee, Illinois in 1933.  Helen and Raymond were her parents and she was the middle daughter sandwiched between Anne and Bretta.  She has fond memories of swimming as a young girl , playing outdoors and hunting with her father.


The family moved to Gary. Indiana, Kansas City, Kansas as a result of Raymond's management skills for Sears Roebuck and Company .Prior, when Raymond attended Lake Forest College , he played quarterback on the football team which beat Michigan.. In fact, I told Jim Harbaugh the story on Jim Brandstatter's radio show. 


 Linda was a cheerleader at Shawnee Mission High School and an excellent golfer joining her mother at the Indian Hills Country Club.  Note, that on one celebrity outing, Linda golfed with "Babe" Didrikson Zaharias. In that four some,the Babe asked high school aged Linda if she wanted to join her on the pro circuit. 


Freud described a normal, mature, and healthy personality as being able to love and to work  Linda's productive personality  orientation relates to her attitude about  human experiences in the areas of mental, emotional and the sensory domain with self and others. In fact , she has  realized her powers,effectiveness  and potential .


Linda's productiveness was evident in many activities with a great expenditure  of energy as she made an impact on so many others . Linda's productivity was  related to the arts, athletics, learning, marketing , managerial abilities and her love and care for others . Her love was unconditional.  She made numerous connections with others and used her thinking ,creativity and  curiosity  extensively .


Linda's orientation was highlighted by her ability to enliven and enrich  the lives of so many that she met during her lifetime.  Her caring, respect and laughter are contagious.  She extended herself and embraced others irrespective of their beliefs or skin color.  She was a humanist at heart that was reflected in her character.  She  is a truly  remarkable loving individual 




Linda played the ukulele and expressed and achieved excellence in the areas of glasswork  and other works of art. There are many examples of her glass work throughout our home, as well as  with her drawings and paintings.  She also assembled numerous Ride and Tie shirts and used that design in creating a very  special meaning blanket.  Linda and our friend Mike were involved in a tile exercise with children. Their art project is visible and decorates an area near  ALT'S swimming pool.                        


Linda was a Whitewater guide working with those that were  handicapped; an excellent flyfishing person ; mountain biker, down hill skier,  kayaker and swimmer.  In fact, she started a water exercise program in our community years ago.  Linda also initiated and began the ball experience at ALT as well.


Linda was a past president of the Silver Spurs equestrian club  in our community.  She participated in limited distance endurance competitions and was a crew member on my many endurance runs and Ride and Tie events. She rode Raider and I Gypsy and  she also hit the trails with her equestrian friends.


Linda was a PE teacher, a Motorola salesperson and owner of the Merry Maids franchise in Auburn.  Linda recently  gave that business to her oldest daughter Sidne.  Her second oldest child.Kristie recently retired from teaching and her son Buck  has the Home Instead franchise.


Linda was once a proud Republican, but is now a loyal Democrat.  In fact, we recently saw Bernie and AOC at a political event this year.  Linda continues to smile, laugh , engage in yoga ,H2O exercise, driving the golf cart and going to Ironworks gym  irrespective of her cognitive condition.


Thursday, September 4, 2025

The Devoted

 


This essay provides one explanation  as to why Trump had a significant following in the 2024 election.  In the past eight months, there's been massive firings of civil service workers, dismantling of  government agencies, disruption of former world allies, economic vulnerability , defunding of universities and  science, attacks on news, political figures and former presidents , a sadistic assault on people of color, sending them to horrible imprisonment locations and of course the terrible bill passed by the GOP Congress.  Although  recent polls  suggest that the majority of citizens oppose these policies, a  significant number around 40% or so  still support him .


From a psychological point of view, the significance of  anxiety and fear reproducing infantile and  child experiences result in dynamics that are seen and repeated in adult behavior.  Anxiety is a repeated prototype and  also associated with  dependence, helplessness and isolation which began with the trauma of birth.  Humans, as a species, remain dependent on another  for  survival.  The dog, cat or horse are examples of initial dependence on the mother and then seem to rapidly become more and more independent within their development.  It's not so for humans.


The newborn, because of its physiology, begins life with a  symbiotic relationship with the mother caretaker. Further, around six months or so, the child begins to separate himself from his mother, as evidenced by separation anxiety with its crying and fussing actions whenever the mother leaves . Because, all the infants-child care, comfort, safety and security  provided by that mother figure becomes threatened . This dynamic occurrence becomes repeated and reinforced over and over again.  In other words, the mother represents and fulfills the child's physiological and psychological needs which becomes threatened with separation..


During  child development, the  father also becomes an important  identification figure with the introjections.  In fact, the father not only represents safety, security and comfort but omnipotent  power and control as in the "King of the Castle."  The child learns how to please his powerful father and loving mother by receiving their love, nurturance and affection and also learns about  fear and hatred through their anger and punishment which is a loss of love by actions that displease the parents. Love, fear and hate are established early psychologically.  In other words, on one hand, the child experiences insecurity, loneliness, powerlessness  and separation that can be modified by union, identification and  introjection with that powerful mother and/or father figure.  This occurs with positive reinforcement and  results in the fulfillment of the unconscious formula or prototype dynamic that becomes repeated not only in childhood but  throughout one's life.  In essence, the need for  protection and security occurs from all the reoccurrences of environmental, cultural, and human hazards that threaten survival.  It's a survival of the fittest ,but only with affiliation which is unconsciously the father, mother  protectors. Also, reality and comfort demands  can be assisted  by other  significant associations and unions  .


During childhood, a child learns and develops a conscience and language including other cognitive developments.  For example, the child learns from a moral point of view of what's right and wrong based on the child's actions , with rewards or punishments   plus overhearing conversations, remarks and behavior made by an authoritarian father,mother  and family  on a wide range of subjects.  A child essentially learns the attitudes of parents pertaining to money, religion , politics , education, health, play, sex, and so forth.


  Clearly, the child learns and believes  everything the parental figures had to say as  truth, goodness and righteousness . Their word is truth and their actions are the law.  A child's perception and beliefs are that the parents are infinitely knowledgeable in their words, remarks and their  sayings are to be revered.  The parental figures are so knowing, so wise and as a result become the remembered law. 


 Early on, one's moral, ethical attitudes are formed and  based on what they've learned from their parents.and family  Because of their limited capacity and knowledge about the world, they are not, at that point ,in their development able  to challenge what they've heard and witnessed.  The  teachings, ethics and learning become embedded in their unconscious and conscious memory.  These various memories become the guides for later action.


Today's economic, social, religious, political, and hazards of nature are associated  with pleasure, frustration, conflict, hardship and pain . Man generally seeks pleasure and attempts to avoid pain from an emotional point of view, it's obvious that some individuals have done quite well in their quest for survival, while others not so well.


There are too many individuals experiencing an inordinate amount of frustration, conflict,anger,pain,and unhappiness related  to economics, politics, health ,ideology and morality resulting in the unconscious, feelings of anxiety, threat,  powerlessness, isolation and impotency.  These psychic  dynamics ,which occurred in childhood, are repeated throughout life.  When these emotional threats occur, there's an unconscious urgent tendency to return for relief, comfort, safety to a father,  mother protector .Therefore, one seeks a “protector” to provide ,comfort.and to reduce that anxiety, threat, fear  and insecurity. 


The smart powerful ruling class use fear as a primary tactic to continue their oppression and rule over this  socioeconomically class of individuals.  In essence, various measures taken by the elite power is simply to maintain that omnipotence and control and to strengthen their hold on the  infantile psychic dependency of the masses. As a result the powerful  elite  impose and  also become that necessary “father” protective figure.  It's clear and obvious that the power structure intimidates the masses intellectually and emotionally to keep them infantile and docile. Further, the powerful also offers the masses other measures of satisfaction that makes life tolerable for them, preventing some from attempting to change their position from that of the obedient son to that of rebellious son.


It's evident that in religion, politics and economics that the powerful employ various fearful strategies that result in a re-emergence ,for many ,of their infantile dependency needs in the search for  protection from a strong, wise, authoritarian,controlling father figure.  Powerful  threats of fear, danger, murder, rapists, loss of jobs , evil, inflation, socialists, Democrats are in Trump’s rhetoric and generalizations.  He’s the only one that's going to make it better.  I can protect you from the immigrants, I can lower the cost of living,  I'm going to make America Great Again .  These socioeconomically deprived ,  idolize, obedient know that  disapproval results in loss of love, protection, rejection and abandonment .


A fantasy is a wish fulfillment and with repeated use of the words and lies that fantasy becomes real. Trump asserts fantasy and his  reality becomes their reality. Like father, Trump is wise, powerful ,right and superior on all subjects . He can do no wrong.


The objective reality doesn’t matter because Trump is their reality . A few of the myths and illusions perpetuated by Trump's GOP are as follows:1. Pres. Obama did not have a legitimate birthright.  It didn't matter that Trump had no solid evidence as his word was the truth.  2. Hillary Clinton's improper  emails 3.Non Russian involvement in the 2016 election 4. The 2020  election was fraudulent. 5. The January 6 rioters were patriots. It didn't matter to the faithful followers because his words were all that was necessary.  In essence, the fact that Trump is a pathological liar does not faze the belief of his followers.  So whatever he says, whatever he does is true, right ,legitimate and moral.


Trump’s followers  also include big tech ,Wall Street ,mega church groups, Congress , Supreme Court and social media giving him a powerful consensus . 


Perhaps the Epstein coverup might awaken some from their psychic paralysis. From Trump's point of view ,pictures can be altered and a witchhunt promoted. All the lies, contradictions, half-truths, deflections and other outlandish distractions have worked brilliantly for him. His beliefs ,words,  actions are truth within an illusionary reality.  Historically, some of our most powerful individuals ,of their time , have fallen prematurely,  Moses never saw the promised land., Jesus was crucified,  Alexander was poisoned,Julius Caesar assisanted, Cleopatra suicide ,Napoleon exiled , Mussolini killed ,and Hitler by suicide . However, the Trump story continues.


In conclusion, the psychological reality for the devoted is based on their  reenactment of their infantile dependency needs and not  based on objectivity, intelligence, experience or reality . Like a father protector , the admired Trump can do no wrong and will make things significantly better in the eyes of the helpless children .