"Facing it — always facing
it — that's the way to get through. Face it!"
– Joseph Conrad
– Joseph Conrad
Tony and I had the pleasure of interviewing the incomparable Julie Suhr on last week’s TV show “It Has
Nothing To Do With Age Or Gender.” Julie, a remarkable lady, has completed 22
Tevis Cup 100 mile endurance rides. She revealed some interesting aspects of
her personality that pertain to her mental and physical toughness.
Julie began riding at about nine years of age on her
families property. Neither parent, especially her mother was too thrilled about
her wanting to ride horses. Despite potential getting in trouble , and parental
displeasure, young Julie exhibited a rebellious streak and secretly rode
anyway. It’s not clear whether or not, Julie’s mother knew what her young
daughter was doing behind her back. In
any event, Julie made up her mind that she was going to ride no matter what.
After getting married and rearing her children, Julie at the
age of 40, experienced a midlife crisis and rode in her first endurance
ride-the Tevis Cup. Although she did not complete that ride, that did not
discourage her one bit. In fact, it only wet her appetite and she was
introduced to a brand new sport of endurance riding. The sport also
changed her world and her life view . The sport gave her a new purpose and meaning. She also connected, at a
different level with her daughter Barbara, and assimilated Barbara into her mother’s world. Further, this new activity, resulted in
developing lifelong and solid relationships that she continues to cherish . The
sport simply enhanced her psychological development and worldview.
To gain a glimpse
into her passion was revealed when she said something to the effect that “ when completing a Tevis Cup ride, I
don’t want it to end.” Even after 30,000
miles, at age 89, Julie’s desire and emotion remains strong. In fact, when a
doctor told her to discontinue riding, she found a different doctor that viewed
and understood her world. Her drive and integrity remain unprecedented.
After the show, Julie emailed me some additional comments
that I’m including “ I enjoyed it Frank. I could do a better
job another time, but one thing I wish I had gotten across about
"Never Quit" is
that if common sense does not sometimes prevail, and you make a basket case of yourself, it can impact so many others
unfairly both financially and emotionally. The demands of care giving by my children or grandchildren because I was foolish would
be unforgivable. We have to think judiciously.”
that if common sense does not sometimes prevail, and you make a basket case of yourself, it can impact so many others
unfairly both financially and emotionally. The demands of care giving by my children or grandchildren because I was foolish would
be unforgivable. We have to think judiciously.”
Thank you Julie.
She remembers to keep moving, laughing, smiling, bonding, deep breathing and
loving.