"Ever tried. Ever failed.
No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better."
– Samuel Beckett
– Samuel Beckett
Jim Mather was Thursday’s TV’s guest on “ It Has Nothing to Do with Age or Gender.”
Young Jim has attempted to complete the historic Tevis Cup ride on three
occasions. On our program, he talked in detail about this year’s ride and the
problems that he encountered. His major goal this year was to complete the
ride. Unfortunately, two weeks prior to the ride his horse came down with
pneumonia and he wound up using his wife’s horse for the ride.
Jim talked about his unfamiliarity with the horse and how
the horse has progressed this past year. All went well as he was ready that
morning of the ride. He described the start, as well as the spirited horses all
around him. The team did well until they reached Robinson Flat. There was
concern about an equine condition called thumping(an electrolyte imbalance).
From Robinson Flat to
Forest Hill Jim’s mental toughness came into play. Jim realized that he had to
be off his horses back during most of this distance. Going through the canyons
in triple digit weather conditions is
not a picnic for anyone. Jim realized that his major goal of completion
was compromised. Feelings of
disappointment crept in. However, that did not discourage or dissuade him from substituting a second goal “protect the
horse.” Jim did just that as he put his
energies into saving his horse. The various barriers and obstacles that
interfere with this ride include extreme
weather conditions, technical trail, and whether the horse
is fit to continue. Jim did his best, and at Forest Hill it was
determined to discontinue the ride.
Within three hours of rest conditions for the horse, the
thumping issue was resolved. Jim’s disappointment of not completing the ride
was apparent. However, the secondary goal of taking care of the horse was achieved.
Jim’s mental toughness prevailed.
I also asked him about his father , Chuck. Jim’s immediate
response was, “ he is a jerk.” The Mather’s have an odd sense of humor. For the
rest of the interview, Jim talked about how his father has been there for him;
how he spends time riding and
working on the trail with him;
and his father is his best friend. He also said that as a teenager he wanted to
be around him, but also wanted to be as far away from him as he could. Feelings
of love- or hate surface at times in any
significant relationship. Over the life of Jim Mather, he did not love his
father 100% of the time. However, this does not mean that he doesn’t love his
father very dearly.
Ride and Tie and mentally tough endurance rider Jim Mather http://youtu.be/t8t2Th0ArPk
More about love-hate relationships to follow on my next
blog.
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