Part two
Recently I was interviewing Thom Darden for my next book
focusing on mental toughness, bonding, the University of Michigan versus Ohio
State rivalry, and coaches Bo Schembechler and Woody Hayes. In thinking about a
book title, I came up with one possibility “the son of a bitch is krazy.” Thom agreed and said that could be a title.
I’m sure every Michigan player on that 1969 team would likely agree and know
who I was referring to.
Thom told me the following story. As a terrific Sandusky, Ohio high school football player,
he was recruited by many schools, including Miami of Ohio. At that time, Bo
Schembechler was head coach. During
Thom’s visit , he met another
outstanding recruit one Billy Taylor from Barberton, Ohio. Thom was expecting
the red carpet and a steak dinner. Instead, Coach Schembechler told the young
boys to put on their shorts, and running shoes. After their work out, they said
were not coming here “This coach is crazy.”
Both boys were also recruited by Bump Elliott, the
University Michigan head coach. They enrolled and played freshman football at
Michigan. In late December 1969, Bump was fired
and Bo Schembechler hired.
When Thom went to meet coach Schembechler, the first words
coming out of coach Schembechler “ close the door; you thought you could get rid of me.” You’ll have to read the book
to find out their other conversations.
Both Thom and Billy became football All-Americans at
Michigan, while Thom became all Pro for two seasons with the Cleveland Browns.
While with the Browns and while Bo was coach and athletic director, Thom
frequently visited Coach Schembechler. And on one visit, Bo broke down telling
Thom about the death of his son in an automobile accident. Thom also broke
down. Thom feels very close to Bo and loves him dearly , to this day, as he
matured.
If I interviewed Thom as a
20 or 21-year-old, I doubt Thom would’ve said that I love him. As I said
in a previous blog, we generally don’t love someone 24/7. Our feelings change
rapidly, but the overall ratio(love, hate, disappointment, etc.) tells the
story.
The relationships of this coach with his young
men tell a very powerful story.
On another note, keep moving, laughing, smiling, deep
breathing, bonding, and loving.
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