Neurotic Anxiety
Part 2
Ken, another
friend wants to buy my firearm when he goes camping with his wife. Ken is about
60 years of age, good physical health, active, gun knowledgeable and an
experienced camper. When asked about my gun, he says he wants it for
protection. Protection from what or whom is not clear. Ken has neurotic anxiety
in that he does not go to remote places to camp, nor has he ever been
threatened by anyone. I am unable to convince him or argue about the gun; or
safety; or the likely hood of him being attacked. How many camp killings have
occurred in California? He is simply not receptive nor understanding about his
anxiety.
Neurotic
anxiety means that Ken has some underlying issue perhaps pertaining to a
weakness, not in control or helplessness that results in the prompting, promoting
or fueling his underlying insecurity. Ken was simply not able to identify the
cause. He might not even be able to identify that he is anxious about his going
camping. Having a gun is simply the belief that he can protect both him and his
wife from some unknown danger. He does not address that having a gun, does not solve
the underlying dynamic in his personality. Moreover, Ken told me that his wife
calls him passive aggressive.
To Be
Continued
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